Week of 3/2/25

Helping Others When We’re Hurting

In my early days of grief I didn’t know what to do with myself. The pain was too big and the quiet was too loud. I ended up finding an organization that helped people experiencing homelessness on the streets of Boston. Late at night we’d walk through the city, talking to people, handing out supplies, just being there. A lot of them were struggling with substance use or mental health challenges. Some wanted help. Some just wanted to be seen.

I didn’t go into it thinking it would help me, but it did. In a time when I felt lost and disconnected, it gave me purpose. It reminded me that even in the hardest moments, showing up for someone else can be healing. Grief can make us feel helpless. But sometimes, stepping outside of ourselves, even just for a little while, can bring a kind of peace we don’t expect.

As that group disbanded, our organization started doing collections for the homeless in other communities as well. This month we will be supporting the organization The Boston Backpack Project by doing a collection drive for their outreach. This organization was created by bereaved mom, Elaine Mitrano, in memory of her son Michael.

Have you ever found comfort in helping others during your grief? Share what you’ve done on our private facebook page. It may inspire another griever! Read more about volunteering as a coping strategy.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

MEETING CHANGES

NEW MEETING LOCATION FOR THE BRAVEHEARTS FALMOUTH MA GROUP!

The BraveHearts peer grief support meeting is moving! Starting this week, the new location address is 840 Sandwich Rd Falmouth MA. Are you located on the cape? Please join us!

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum Visit Sunday March 23, 2025 11:00 am Boston MA

Please join us! Visiting together allows us to experience beauty, history and connection in a space shaped by resilience and creativity. Did you know Isabella was a bereaved mother? Cost: FREE but requires a $20 per person deposit that you will receive back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. For questions, please contact Cindy Kaplan at (508) 269-8428. Register Here.

 SADOD’s Tools & Strategies for Grieving as a Family Virtual Psychoeducational Workshop March 25th 6:30-8:00 pm ET

Grief is a deeply personal experience, and even when family members are grieving the same loss, they may process it in very different ways. One person may want to talk about their pain, while another may prefer to grieve quietly. Since there is no “right” way to grieve, it’s important to make space for these differences within the family. Join us for a workshop that will explore practical tools and strategies for grieving together as a family, supporting one another despite varying needs and approaches. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/family-grief-workshop. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org

OPIOID SETTLEMENT FUND UPDATES

MILTON MA RESIDENTS’ VOICES NEEDED!

This week! Two different focus groups. Please join in the conversation. The first group is for people who have someone they care about that currently or in the past has had opioid related issues or for anyone who has had someone they care about die due to opioid use. The second group is for individuals who are in recovery from opioid related issues. Please share with anyone you know who could lend their voice to this topic. Sign up here.

Northeast Region Communities

MA Office of Health & Human Services (EOHHS), and the Attorney General’s Office (AGO) are hosting a series of listening sessions on the opioid settlement funds. The listening sessions are intended to provide information about the state’s portion of the opioid settlement funds and how these monies are being used to align with the strategic priorities identified by the Opioid Recovery & Remediation Fund (ORRF) Advisory Council. More importantly, community members will have an opportunity to provide input on how these funds should be used in the future to support individuals and families disproportionately impacted by the overdose crisis. The first listening session will be held in the Northeast Region (see map below) on Wednesday, March 19th from 1:30-5:30pm at the Lynn City Hall Auditorium. Sign up here.

COMMUNITY UPDATES

HALO INITIATIVES: FAMILY OVERDOSE SUPPORT FUND

Boston Residents! If you are a BOSTON resident who has experienced the death of a family member to overdose within th last 2 years, you may be eligible for up to $5,000 in financial support. Apply here.

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Monday - IN-PERSON, WEYMOUTH MA 3/3/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Darlene Mersereau facilitating. 

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - ZOOM - 3/3/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Aileen Lovejoy & Deb Dowd-Foley facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86930927959?pwd=i4N7hWEhAtD4HPnBKCBi9LGEF7AGbt.1 

Meeting ID: 869 3092 7959

Passcode: 239207 or

One tap mobile +16469313860

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New location!! Wednesday - IN-PERSON, BRAVEHEARTS FALMOUTH MA 3/5/25 1:30-3:00 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating.  

UU Falmouth MA, 840 Sandwich Road, East Falmouth, MA. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - ZOOM - 3/5/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/89339848976?pwd=ayd1jLi4bBYapnBuybFIkmTE7fhDfq.1

Meeting ID: 893 3984 8976

Passcode: 135336 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, TAUNTON, MA 3/5/25 7:00-8:00 pm ET. 

Sandra Chase facilitating. 

Learn to Cope Office, 4 Court Street, #110, Taunton, MA. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, PORTLAND, ME 3/5/25 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Karen Walsh and Rachel Solomon facilitating. 

The Family Restored, 631 Stevens Avenue, Suite 205, Portland, ME 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Thursday - GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS - ZOOM 3/6/25 5:30-6:30 pm ET. 

Kerry Bickford facilitating. 

For grandparents that have experienced the death of a family member due to substance use now navigating grief and other issues with their grandchildren. The focus of this Thursday group will be on the grandchildren.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/2334755647

Meeting ID: 233 475 5647 or

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“Please be happy. The sun will rise” ~Nick Bean

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Week of 2/23/25

In 2016, nine months after Nick died, I wrote this. I didn’t plan to share it, but I set it out into the world back then. It felt like time to share it again. Maybe you can relate. Maybe you’ve had days when you feel this way too. If you have, I want you to know you’re not alone in feeling this way.

I JUST DON’T

I just don't. I don't want this life. I don't want to facilitate a grief group. I don't want to make deliveries to the addicted on the street. I don't want to stand at podium and tell strangers about Nick. I don't want to meet with local and state politicians and listen to them blather. I don't want to go to meetings where they gather and decipher data on overdoses. I don't want to hold a vigil candle in my hand and watch the wax drip. I don't want to be a face of overdose death in my town. I don't want people to avoid me in the supermarket. I don't want to tend to a grave. I don't want to have a bedroom frozen in time. I don't want to hear my husband silently weep when he thinks I'm asleep. I don't want to wake up in a panic after only two hours of fitful sleep. I don't want to listen to my daughter sob as she tries to explain how much her heart aches. I don't want to watch my son try to cope in self imposed silence with the loss of his big brother. I don't want to feel like I have a knife in my lungs every time I try to take a breathe. I don't want to walk around with eyes swollen and blurry from crying so much. I don't want to hold his blanket to my face so I can smell him. I don't want to never hold him again. I don't want an empty chair. I don't want to have only memories. I don't want to stare blankly at the rest of the world as it continues to turn. I don't want this life. I just don't.

Life had turned upside down for me. It felt unbearable. Knowing that these feelings are common and normal in grief can help. Read more: You’re Not Crazy-You’re Grieving

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

FOR THE NEWLY BEREAVED AND THOSE NEW TO THE SUN WILL RISE

We’re introducing a new peer grief support group: New Beginnings. Designed for those who are newly bereaved and those new to The Sun Will Rise. This group offers a welcoming space to connect, share and find support from others who understand the weight of early grief. If you're looking for a place to start, New Beginnings will help you navigate our offerings while providing a compassionate community to walk alongside you.

The group is facilitated by our long-standing facilitator, Janice Kaplan, who brings years of experience in peer support, offering guidance and connection as you take your first steps in our community.

CREATING AND REMEMBERING TOGETHER AT OUR CLAY THERAPY EVENT!

REMINDER ABOUT THESE TWO ADDITIONAL NEW GROUPS STARTING THIS WEEK!

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

SADOD’s Supporting Grieving Grands Virtual Workshop Tuesday, 2/25/25 6:30 - 8:00 pm ET

Substance use related deaths leave behind grieving families, including grandparents and other relatives who often take on the role of caregiver. This workshop, led by TSWR Senior Facilitator & SADOD's Peer Grief Support Specialist focusing on grieving grand), Kerry Bickford, Nancy Frumer Styron (Clinical Director of The Children’s Room), and Deb Tobin (Bereaved Mother Raising a Grandchild), will focus on supporting grieving grands and those who care for them. It’s open to grieving grands, those looking to help them, and anyone interested in this topic. Register at bit.ly/grieving-grands-workshop. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org 

Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum Visit Sunday March 23, 2025 11:00 am Boston MA

Visiting together allows us to experience beauty, history and connection in a space shaped by resilience and creativity. Cost: FREE but requires a $20 per person deposit that you will receive back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. For questions, please contact Cindy Kaplan at (508) 269-8428. Register Here.

MILTON MA RESIDENTS’ VOICES NEEDED!

Two different focus groups. Please join in the conversation. The first group is for people who have someone they care about that currently or in the past has had opioid related issues or for anyone who has had someone they care about die due to opioid use. The second group is for individuals who are in recovery from opioid related issues. Please share with anyone you know who could lend their voice to this topic.

HALO INITIATIVES: FAMILY OVERDOSE SUPPORT FUND

Boston Residents! If you are a BOSTON resident who has experienced the death of a family member to overdose within the last 2 years, you may be eligible for up to $5,000 in financial support. Apply here.

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Meeting notes: Faith based not meeting this week. Young People Sunday group move new time. Three new offerings this week!

Monday - GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS - ZOOM  2/24/25 12:00-1:00 pm ET. (Rescheduled from 2/17 due to holiday)

Kerry Bickford facilitating. 

For grandparents that have experienced the death or estrangement of a grandchild due to substance use (theirs or their parents.)  The focus of this Monday  group will be on the grandparent. 

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/2334755647

Meeting ID: 233 475 5647 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Monday - IN-PERSON, WEYMOUTH MA 2/24/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Darlene Mersereau facilitating. 

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - ZOOM 2/24/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Don Lipstein facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84716470892

Meeting ID: 847 1647 0892 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Tuesday - HYBRID - LEARNING TO COPE WITH GRIEF MEETING - IN-PERSON & ZOOM, GLOUCESTER, MA  2/25/25 7:00-8:00 pm ET. 

Colleen and Gordon Bullard facilitating. 

CORE Peer Recovery and Resource Center 11 - 15 Parker Street, Gloucester, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83349371338?pwd=RXM5RnRINGJKL21HTFhiSVYyR1NCdz09

Meeting ID: 833 4937 1338

Passcode: 560270

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, BRIDGEWATER, MA 2/25/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Natalie Patricio facilitating. 

Trinity Episcopal Church 91 Main St Bridgewater MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 2/25/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating. 

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or One tap mobile 16465588656

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Tuesday - PARTNER & SPOUSE - ZOOM 2/25/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Kar-Kate Parenteau facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a partner, spouse or significant other due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86578435343?pwd=avNFpCQpiLGCsKRKFEsexJj7E87gM5.1

Meeting ID: 865 7843 5343

Passcode: 287422 or

One tap mobile: 13052241968

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Wednesday - PEOPLE IN RECOVERY - ZOOM 2/26/25 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Leslie Lagos facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who identifies as being in recovery from any substance or alcohol who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86324167889?pwd=nrGKjzkr7MyLBnQBfLoUj9Sc43O1r6.1

Meeting ID: 863 2416 7889

Passcode: 428961

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New Offering!! Thursday- NEW BEGINNINGS GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP - ZOOM 2/27/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Janice Kaplan facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over newly bereaved due to substance use related causes and/or new to The Sun Will Rise Foundation.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/93853426722?pwd=zhxz5RYig8tunxUyGp6K8Uk19XKxgw.1

Meeting ID: 938 5342 6722

Passcode: 756069 or

One tap mobile 13017158592

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New Offering!! Thursday - IN-PERSON, BRIGHTON, MA 2/27/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Liz Driscoll facilitating. 

PSF Community Center, 640 Washington Street, New Balance Room, Lower Level, Brighton, MA. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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New Time! Sunday - YOUNG PERSON MEETING, IN-PERSON, MEDFORD, MA 3/2/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Michelle Rueda and Chloe Brosnan co-facilitating. 

96 Winchester Street, Medford, MA.   

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about to substance use.

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New Offering!! Sunday - MOVING FORWARD-PEER GRIEF SUPPORT FOR PARENTS IN-PERSON, ATTLEBORO MA 3/2/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Kathi Sullivan facilitating. 

Sullivan’s Message Resource Community Center, 218 Park Street, North Attleboro, MA

For parents who have experienced the death of a child due to substance use.

Do you know someone bereaved due to substance use related causes that would appreciate our weekly email?

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“Please be happy. The sun will rise” ~Nick Bean

Week of 2/16/25

The Heart of Our Groups… Our Peer Grief Support Facilitators

At The Sun Will Rise, our peer grief support groups are built on the simple but powerful idea that no one should have to grieve alone. What makes these groups work isn’t just the space they provide, it’s also the people who facilitate them. Our facilitators aren’t therapists or counselors, they are people who have walked this road themselves. They understand because they’ve lived it.

Peer facilitators create a space where people grieving substance use related deaths can speak freely without judgment or explanation. They hold space for the stories, the hard days and the small victories. Their presence reminds us that while grief changes, it doesn’t have to be carried alone.

We’re excited to welcome three new facilitators and two new groups to expand our reach. A new group in Brighton, MA facilitated by Liz Driscoll, will provide more opportunities for in-person connection. We’re also launching a new parents’ group, facilitated by Kathi Sullivan, meeting in person one week in North Attleboro and via Zoom another week, offering support specifically for parents who have experienced the death of a child. We are also thrilled that Natalie Patricio, who you’ve met as being a member of the events committee, is now going to take over facilitation of the Bridgewater MA group. And this is just the beginning! Next week, we’ll be announcing more new groups and facilitators to help reach even more people who need support.

If you’ve been looking for a space where others understand, we invite you to join us. And if you’re ever interested in volunteering yourself, let’s talk. Just complete this facilitator inquiry form or volunteer inquiry form. The more we show up for each other, the stronger our community becomes.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

Meet Liz Driscoll! Hello! I’m a Boston native currently working in crisis intervention and disability advocacy.  I’ve been in the harm reduction space for nearly a decade, introduced to the principles while studying criminology and psychology in college. After experiencing the death of numerous friends, coworkers, and peers to the overdose crisis, I switched the focus of my academic research to the topic of harm-reduction, studying the impacts of safe consumption sites in Europe and Canada.

Intimately aware of the isolation and stigmatization that comes along with this grief, I’m dedicated to creating accessible and safe spaces for us to process and navigate individual grief while finding solace in our connections and shared common ground of other community members. Outside of work, I can be found hunting mushrooms in the woods with my nine year-old dog Scout or at home practicing yoga with my cats. Liz will facilitate the Brighton MA group starting 2/27/25.

Meet Kathi Sullivan! They say a moment in your life can change who you are. On October 17, 2008, Kathi Sullivan had that moment. Kathi's 17-year-old daughter Taylor passed away from underage drinking after attending a homecoming game and a series of underage drinking parties her senior year in high school. After enduring a three-day search, Taylor was found drowned in two feet of water, after getting lost from an outside party in the woods at an abandoned airport in Norfolk, MA.

Two months later, she began to speak about substance use, alcohol awareness, mental health, wellness, and the importance of making good choices. Kathi met Chris Sullivan, whom was only 5 weeks sober, when he attended her first parent night she presented. Two years later, they married and now share about substance use, underage drinking and the importance of mental health awareness & simply making good choices across the country. During Covid, 2020, they opened the doors to a small resource center where people can come and connect and seek guidance in the world of recovery.

As a Mom who’s child has died, Kathi knows the importance of having someone to be able to talk to that has also experienced the death of a child. She started a virtual meeting in 2020 called “Moving Forward Mommas” for Mom’s whose child died by any circumstance. Kathi is a lifelong Plainville, MA resident and shares her home with her husband of 14 years, Chris and their FOUR dogs. Besides being Taylor’s Mom, she is blessed with two sons, Zachary & Logan and is the proud grandmother to Ryan, Audrey, Reese, Finn, Natalia & Emelia. She will facilitate the new Moving Forward Parents Group starting March 2, 2025.

Since Natalie has already introduced herself before, she wanted you to know more about Nelson, her twin brother who died two and a half years ago due to cirrhosis and AUD. From Natalie Patricio: We were born an almost unheard of nearly 50 minutes apart. I was born first and Nelson was second-he was delivered breech with his feet first. He needed emergent care immediately after having been deprived of oxygen during delivery. I liked to joke and say he was a trouble maker literally from birth (he agreed). It was proof he did things his way and he was strong and survived against the odds. 

We had been inseparable our entire lives-even as adults we had been neighbors, living directly across the street from each other. Nelson was unforgettable with intense blue eyes and a mischievous grin. He was magnetic, charming, and fearless. He was great with his hands-could draw, paint, repair, or build just about anything. He made everything fun, even wearing a Big Bad Wolf costume on Halloween just a few years ago to match me when I was Little Red Riding Hood. 

Natalie says that telling our stories to others who will really listen is so powerful. Hearing others is equally as important-we relate, we learn, we hold space for them. Having a safe space to honor, remember, and any other feelings we want to share has been my life-line and I hope it will be for others. Natalie starts facilitating the Bridgewater MA group on 2/25/25.

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

Clay Therapy Workshop Monday February 17, 2025 2:00-4:00pm Norwell MA

One ticket remains. Register here. Wait list also available. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

SADOD’s Supporting Grieving Grands Virtual Workshop Tuesday, February 25, 2025, 6:30 - 8:00 pm ET

Substance use related deaths leave behind grieving families, including grandparents and other relatives who often take on the role of caregiver. This workshop, led by TSWR Senior Facilitator & SADOD's Peer Grief Support Specialist focusing on grieving grand), Kerry Bickford, Nancy Frumer Styron (Clinical Director of The Children’s Room), and Deb Tobin (Bereaved Mother Raising a Grandchild), will focus on supporting grieving grands and those who care for them. It’s open to grieving grands, those looking to help them, and anyone interested in this topic. Register at bit.ly/grieving-grands-workshop. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org 

HALO INITIATIVES: FAMILY OVERDOSE SUPPORT FUND

Boston Residents! If you are a BOSTON resident who has experienced the death of a family member to overdose within the last 2 years, you may be eligible for up to $5,000 in financial support. Apply here.

Meeting notes: Hanson MA & LGBTQ on pause. Young People Sunday group moved to 3/2/25 new time.

Monday GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS ZOOM  2/17/25 12:00-1:00 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating.

For grandparents that have experienced the death or estrangement of a grandchild due to substance use (theirs or their parents.)  The focus of this Monday  group will be on the grandparents.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/2334755647

Meeting ID: 233 475 5647 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, QUINCY, MA 2/18/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating.

New Way Recovery, 85 Quincy Avenue, Quincy, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, BRAVEHEARTS FALMOUTH MA 2/19/25 1:30-3:00 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating.

Learn to Cope Office 24 Spring Bars Road, Suite 1A, Falmouth MA.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, CHARLESTOWN, MA 2/19/25 6:00-7:00 pm ET.

Shannon Lundin & Michael Cain facilitating. 

St. John’s Church  27 Devens St 2nd Floor Charlestown MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - ZOOM 2/19/25 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Karen Walsh and Rachel Solomon facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86470429283

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Wednesday - SIBLING ZOOM 2/19/25 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Miriah Corso facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a sibling due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/92909305605?pwd=IacFroINAxOZi94CLJRXZeTvbaL2lK.1

Meeting ID: 929 0930 5605

Passcode: 131849 or

One tap mobile 13126266799

Do you know someone bereaved due to substance use related causes that would appreciate our weekly email?

Have them sign up here for support!

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To view the newsletter on our website, please enter the password: grief

Week of 2/9/25

Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day can be especially tough when the person who once filled the space next to you is gone. The commercials, the cards, the social media posts… ugh the reminders can be everywhere.

For some people, the day passes like any other, just another date on the calendar to get through. For others, it brings a sadness, a longing for the way things used to be. If this holiday feels hard, this is a reminder that you don’t have to grieve alone. Our Partner/Spouse Support Group is meeting this week, offering a space to talk with others who understand. No pressure, no expectations, just a place to be real about love, sadness and everything in between. And we have NINE other groups this week to support everyone who is feeling some kind of way with this holiday. We see you.

Tips for coping on Valentine’s Day from What’s Your Grief.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

Local friends! Help support The Sun Will Rise Foundation, Inc.

We will receive a $1 donation for every $2.50 Stop & Shop reusable Community Bag sold during all of February 2025 at: Stop & Shop 316 Grove Street, Braintree MA!

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

Clay Therapy Workshop Monday February 17, 2025 2:00-4:00pm Norwell MA

One ticket has become available. Register here. Wait list also available. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

SADOD’s Supporting Grieving Grands Virtual Workshop Tuesday, February 25, 2025, 6:30 - 8:00 pm ET

Substance use related deaths leave behind grieving families, including grandparents and other relatives who often take on the role of caregiver. This workshop, led by TSWR Senior Facilitator & SADOD's Peer Grief Support Specialist focusing on grieving grand), Kerry Bickford, Nancy Frumer Styron (Clinical Director of The Children’s Room), and Deb Tobin (Bereaved Mother Raising a Grandchild), will focus on supporting grieving grands and those who care for them. It’s open to grieving grands, those looking to help them, and anyone interested in this topic. Register at bit.ly/grieving-grands-workshop. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org 

Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum Visit Sunday March 23, 2025 11:00 am Boston MA

Visiting together allows us to experience beauty, history and connection in a space shaped by resilience and creativity. Cost: FREE but requires a $20 per person deposit that you will receive back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. For questions, please contact Cindy Kaplan at (508) 269-8428. Register Here.

HALO INITIATIVES: FAMILY OVERDOSE SUPPORT FUND

Boston Residents! If you are a BOSTON resident who has experienced the death of a family member to overdose within the last 2 years, you may be eligible for up to $5,000 in financial support. Apply here.

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Meeting note: Kingston MA paused

Monday - IN-PERSON, WEYMOUTH MA 2/10/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Kathy Ernest (filling in for Darlene Mersereau) facilitating.

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - Christian Faith Based Hope After Loss- IN-PERSON MARLBOROUGH, MA 2/10/25 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Cheryl Juaire facilitating.

Greater Grace Christian Fellowship, 187 Pleasant St Marlborough MA.  

For anyone 18 and over of the Christian faith who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.  

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Monday - MOM’S ONLY - ZOOM 2/10/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Tracy Carter and Karen Swindell facilitating.

For mothers who have experienced the death of a child(ren) due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81904227569?pwd=YnSJwFTN6DFsHTYnPhfMHqUue9ZaL9.1

Meeting ID: 819 0422 7569

Passcode: 807237 or

One tap mobile 13052241968

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Monday - SUICIDE RELATED DEATH- ZOOM 2/10/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Don Lipstein facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use. Whether you know for sure that suicide was the cause of death or you are uncertain, you will find support here.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84104821860?pwd=gwiYOLLDBU5dcbDRYCjQW3bxKYQ9DK.1

Meeting ID: 841 0482 1860

Passcode: 886489 or

One tap mobile 13017158592

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, NATHAN’S CIRCLE, WEST BARNSTABLE, MA 2/11/25 5:30-7:00 pm ET.

Hybrid option available please request zoom link.

Kerry and Richard Bickford facilitating.

Compass Rose Center 1106 Main St West Barnstable MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, WINTHROP, MA 2/11/25 4:30-6:00 pm ET.

JoAnn Rivieccio facilitating.

196 Winthrop Street, Winthrop, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - PARTNER & SPOUSE - ZOOM 2/11/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Kar-Kate Parenteau facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a partner, spouse or significant other due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86578435343?pwd=avNFpCQpiLGCsKRKFEsexJj7E87gM5.1

Meeting ID: 865 7843 5343

Passcode: 287422 or

One tap mobile: 13052241968

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Tuesday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 2/11/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Gary Carter facilitating.

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Time: Feb 11, 2025 07:00 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada)

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/93073077484?pwd=pRlUQKDWvqrpjObltczKOyEGHggvqx.1

Meeting ID: 930 7307 7484

Passcode: 715924 or

One tap mobile 13092053325

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Wednesday - GRIEVING MULTIPLE LOVED ONES - ZOOM 2/12/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Annie Avitabile facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of multiple loved ones due to substance use.

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https://us06web.zoom.us/j/88620038150?pwd=tPIsgXzIez3IJB2Ly7SoeSyNN8sYkm.1

Meeting ID: 886 2003 8150

Passcode: 358575 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Thursday - YOUNG PERSON (18-35) MEETING - ZOOM 2/13/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET.  

Chloe Brosnan facilitating

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

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Meeting ID: 925 7022 5816

Passcode: 646974 or

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“Please be happy. The sun will rise” ~Nick Bean

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Week of 2/2/25

Writing Through Grief

Grief sometimes feels impossible to put into words, but sometimes writing is the only thing that helps. It could be journaling, writing letters to the person who died or even just scribbling down thoughts. Putting grief on a page can be a way to process emotions we have trouble saying out loud. Your writing doesn’t have to be polished or even shared with anyone else. It doesn’t even have to make sense. It can be a safe space to express anger, sadness, love, regret or even the things we wish we had said. Sometimes, just seeing our feelings in front of us is enough to help a little, even if only for a moment.

Have you ever turned to writing in your grief? What has it meant to you? Read Bylaws & Grief by Randi Schalet. Randi facilitates our Berkeley CA group and has returned to writing after the death of her son.

Want more? Join in a two hour online writing program offered by Evermore Poet Laureate Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer for some suggestions on how to write poems that touch your grief. (This is not an activity hosted by The Sun Will Rise)

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

BOSTON RESIDENTS!

HALO INITIATIVES: FAMILY OVERDOSE SUPPORT FUND

Apply now!

If you are a BOSTON resident who has experienced the death of a family member to overdose within the last 2 years, you may be eligible for up to $5,000 in financial support to assist with the following:

·     Funeral Expenses

·     Funerals, burials, or cremation services for the person who died from overdose.

·     Behavioral Health Services

·     Therapy or support services by a licensed clinician for surviving family members.

·     Child Wellness Support

·     Childcare and enrichment costs (e.g., camps, after-school programs, extracurricular activities) for children impacted by a parent, guardian, or sibling’s fatal overdose.

·     Legal Fees

·     Custody or legal arrangements related to the death of your loved one.

ELIGIBILITY REQUIREMENTS

·     APPLICANTS MUST BE BOSTON RESIDENTS.

·     THE OVERDOSE DEATH MUST HAVE OCCURRED WITHIN THE PAST TWO YEARS.

·     DOCUMENTATION VERIFYING FAMILIAL RELATION, BOSTON RESIDENCY, AND RELEVANT EXPENSES IS REQUIRED.

If you do not meet the eligibility requirements, you may request an Application Exception Review by writing to us at contact@haloinitiatives.org. Exceptions are not guaranteed, but you can provide a detailed explanation of any extenuating circumstances or mitigating factors impacting your eligibility and why you believe you should be considered for support from the Family Overdose Support Fund.

SADOD IS HIRING!

Job description & Application

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. Clay Therapy Workshop Monday February 17, 2025 2:00-4:00pm Norwell MA Event sold out. Wait list available. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

2. Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum Visit Sunday March 23, 2025 11:00 am Boston MA The Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum is one of Boston’s most unique and celebrated museums. Isabella Stewart Gardner was a wealthy socialite who, like many of us, experienced profound loss. To cope with her grief, her doctor encouraged her to travel, a journey that ultimately led to the creation of this museum. Throughout the galleries, you’ll find several masterpieces depicting mothers and children, offering a deeply personal connection to her story. Visiting together allows us to experience beauty, history and connection in a space shaped by resilience and creativity. Cost: FREE but requires a $20 per person deposit that you will receive back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. For questions, please contact Cindy Kaplan at (508) 269-8428. Register Here.

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Meeting note: Falmouth Postponed

Monday - ZOOM - 2/3/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Aileen Lovejoy & Deb Dowd-Foley facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join zoom

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86930927959?pwd=i4N7hWEhAtD4HPnBKCBi9LGEF7AGbt.1

Meeting ID: 869 3092 7959 Passcode: 239207 or

One tap mobile +16469313860

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Monday - IN-PERSON BERKELEY, CA 2/3/25 7:00-8:30 pm PT. 

Randi Schalet facilitating.  

Berkeley Town House/Library Room, 2550 Dana Street, Berkeley, CA. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - ZOOM - 2/5/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/89339848976?pwd=ayd1jLi4bBYapnBuybFIkmTE7fhDfq.1

Meeting ID: 893 3984 8976

Passcode: 135336 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, TAUNTON, MA 2/5/25 7:00-8:00 pm ET. 

Sandra Chase facilitating.  

Learn to Cope Office, 4 Court Street, #110, Taunton, MA. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, PORTLAND, ME 2/5/25 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Karen Walsh and Rachel Solomon facilitating. 

The Family Restored, 631 Stevens Avenue, Suite 205, Portland, ME 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Thursday - GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS - ZOOM 2/6/25 5:30-6:30 pm ET. 

Kerry Bickford facilitating. 

For grandparents that have experienced the death of a family member due to substance use now navigating grief and other issues with their grandchildren. The focus of this Thursday group will be on the grandchildren.

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Meeting ID: 233 475 5647 or

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“Please be happy. The sun will rise” ~Nick Bean

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Week of 1/26/25

Grief and the Middle of the Night

There’s something about the quiet of the late night that makes grief feel sharper. The thoughts and feelings we manage to keep at bay during the day surface. At night our memories seem to echo a little louder and the absence of someone we miss feels a little heavier. For some people this time can feel really lonely. For others, it’s a chance to sit with emotions. Many of us find ways to navigate these hours, some healthier than others. Whether it’s journaling, texting a friend, reading, creating a new bedtime routine, scrolling on social media or like me, keeping the TV on in the background to quiet the mind, these things can help us get through and make the stillness feel less overwhelming.

If you find yourself awake in these hours, know you’re not alone. These moments might be tough but they can also be a place of quiet healing. Have you found yourself sitting with grief in the stillness of the night? How do you navigate those moments? We’d love to hear your reflections.

Listen more about Grieving at Nighttime.

And check out the Mindfulness in Grief Guide below for helpful practices you can try.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

MINDFULNESS IN GRIEF GUIDE

A new guide published by Peer Support Community Partners. This is an introductory guide about the role that mindfulness can play in the grief journey. Mindfulness is a highly personalized practice that can take many forms. Let us know if you find this guide helpful!

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. SADOD's Psychoeducational Workshop: Finding Meaning in Grief Tuesday, January 28, 2025 6:30 PM 8:00 PM ET We are capable of experiencing hope, healing, well-being and growth in the face of loss. It is possible to make meaning of our losses and regain energy and spontaneity. Guest speaker, Randi Schalet, is a clinical psychologist who has been providing psychotherapy for thirty years. Randi is the peer facilitator for The Sun Will Rise Group in Berkeley CA. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/finding-meaning-sadod. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org 

2. Clay Therapy Workshop Monday February 17, 2025 2:00-4:00pm ET Norwell MA Join us for a two hour Clay Therapy workshop focused around processing grief. Clay Therapy is a form of sensorimotor, art therapy. A counselor trained in clay therapy will use person-centered counseling and art therapy principles to allow for a hands-on exploration of emotions. What comes from working with the Clay can be a powerful image that we give meaning to through group discussion. Working with clay can ground us, help us explore potential, allow space to process and bring calm to our body and mind. This is not an "art class" though art will be made. Registration Required! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding.Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Monday - IN-PERSON, WEYMOUTH MA 1/27/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Darlene Mersereau facilitating. 

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - Christian Faith Based Hope After Loss- IN-PERSON MARLBOROUGH, MA 1/27/25 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Cheryl Juaire facilitating.  

Greater Grace Christian Fellowship, 187 Pleasant St Marlborough, MA. 

For anyone 18 and over of the Christian faith who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.  

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Monday - GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS - ZOOM  1/27/25 12:00-1:00 pm ET. 

Kerry Bickford facilitating. 

For grandparents that have experienced the death or estrangement of a grandchild due to substance use (theirs or their parents.)  The focus of this Monday  group will be on the grandparents.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/2334755647

Meeting ID: 233 475 5647 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Monday - ZOOM 1/27/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Don Lipstein facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84716470892

Meeting ID: 847 1647 0892 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Tuesday - HYBRID - LEARNING TO COPE WITH GRIEF MEETING - IN-PERSON & ZOOM, GLOUCESTER, MA  1/28/25 7:00-8:00 pm ET. 

Colleen and Gordon Bullard facilitating.

CORE Peer Recovery and Resource Center 11 - 15 Parker Street, Gloucester, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83349371338?pwd=RXM5RnRINGJKL21HTFhiSVYyR1NCdz09

Meeting ID: 833 4937 1338

Passcode: 560270

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, BRIDGEWATER, MA 1/28/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Judy Kelly facilitating.

Trinity Episcopal Church 91 Main St Bridgewater MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - MEN'S ONLY - ZOOM 1/28/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating.

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

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Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Tuesday - PARTNER & SPOUSE - ZOOM 1/28/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Kar-Kate Parenteau facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a partner, spouse or significant other due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86578435343?pwd=avNFpCQpiLGCsKRKFEsexJj7E87gM5.1

Meeting ID: 865 7843 5343

Passcode: 287422 or

One tap mobile: 13052241968

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Thursday- ZOOM 1/30/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Janice Kaplan facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

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Week of January 5, 2025

This week we have four in-person groups, two regular zoom groups, two speciality zoom groups and one in person event. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

EXPRESS YOURSELF

Grief sometimes feels too big for words, but sharing our stories can be a powerful way to process and connect. Stories don’t need to be polished or perfect. They simply need to be our own. Authentic, raw and true. Whether we tell these stories out loud, write them in a journal or share them in a group, they can give shape to the emotions we have and remind us that we are not alone. Each story holds value in both the telling and also in the listening. I felt the need to share Nick’s story over and over. How we got here, how he died, how I wished I could rewind time…. So many things I had to say. It lightened my heart ever so slightly to have people listen and say yes, I understand. Join me on 1/18/25 in Easton MA at an Interactive Grief Workshop called Remembering Lives, Sharing Stories, where we will join together and do just that, with compassion and understanding.

Watch Alicia Cook read her essay, “This Isn’t About The Number Six.” She expresses herself through her words and writing to raise awareness about the challenges that people dealing with substance use related issues and their families and friends face.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

PATRIOTS DIFFERENCE MAKER OF THE WEEK

When the Patriots Foundation established their Celebrate Volunteerism initiative, they also created the "Patriots Difference Maker of the Week" award, which recognizes deserving volunteers who go above and beyond to give back to their community. Since 2011, a volunteer has been recognized each week during the regular season for their commitment to a New England-based nonprofit organization. At the conclusion of each season, all of the honorees are invited to the Patriots final regular season home game to participate in a special in-game celebration.

We are thrilled to announce that Darlene Mersereau was selected as this week’s difference maker!

A dedicated volunteer with The Sun Will Rise Foundation, Darlene serves as a peer grief support group facilitator, bringing warmth, empathy and steadfast commitment to those impacted by the death of a loved one due to substance use related causes. In her role, Darlene leads the Weymouth group meetings where she fosters an environment of nonjudgmental support, understanding and connection.

Her volunteer work has significantly improved the lives of those in her community. Darlene brings a deep understanding of the unique challenges of this type of bereavement, having lived through her own experiences of loss. By sharing her time and story, she has become a trusted presence and a source of strength for others.

Darlene has a keen sense of when someone may be holding back or struggling in silence, and she gently encourages them to share without any pressure. She encourages individuals to take steps forward in their grief journey, helping them find hope in the company of others who understand their struggles. Her supportive approach has turned many hesitant first steps into transformative journeys of healing and connection.

THANK YOU DARLENE!!!

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. JUST SMASH IT! Saturday 1/11/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET Avon MA SOLD OUT. Waitlist available.

2. Remembering Lives, Sharing Stories: An Interactive Grief Workshop Saturday 1/18/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET Easton MA This intimate and interactive workshop is designed to honor the memories of those who have died due to substance use related causes. Participants are invited to share personal stories and reflections about their loved ones in a supportive and compassionate environment. Through guided discussion and activities we will explore the power of talking about memories. Whether someone is looking to speak openly or simply listen to others, this workshop intends to provides a safe, brave space to connect, remember, and heal together. This workshop is being presented by Robyn Houston-Bean and was offered at the 2024 Finding Support In Grief Conference. Reserve your spot here. Questions? Email Robyn@thesunwillrise.org

3. SADOD's Psychoeducational Workshop: Finding Meaning in Grief Tuesday, January 28, 2025 6:30 PM 8:00 PM ET We are capable of experiencing hope, healing, well-being and growth in the face of loss. It is possible to make meaning of our losses and regain energy and spontaneity. Guest speaker, Randi Schalet, is a clinical psychologist who has been providing psychotherapy for thirty years. Randi is the peer facilitator for The Sun Will Rise Group in Berkeley CA. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/finding-meaning-sadod. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org 

4. Clay Therapy Workshop Monday February 17, 2025 2:00-4:00pm ET Norwell MA Join us for a two hour Clay Therapy workshop focused around processing grief. Clay Therapy is a form of sensorimotor, art therapy. A counselor trained in clay therapy will use person-centered counseling and art therapy principles to allow for a hands-on exploration of emotions. What comes from working with the Clay can be a powerful image that we give meaning to through group discussion. Working with clay can ground us, help us explore potential, allow space to process and bring calm to our body and mind. This is not an "art class" though art will be made. Registration Required! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding.Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Please pay special attention to meeting schedule changes throughout the holiday season.

Monday - ZOOM - 1/6/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Aileen Lovejoy & Deb Dowd-Foley facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86930927959?pwd=i4N7hWEhAtD4HPnBKCBi9LGEF7AGbt.1 

Meeting ID: 869 3092 7959 

Passcode: 239207 or

One tap mobile +16469313860

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Monday - IN-PERSON BERKELEY, CA 1/6/25 7:00-8:30 pm PT. 

Randi Schalet facilitating.  

Berkeley Town House/Library Room, 2550 Dana Street, Berkeley, CA.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

__________________  

Monday - GRIEVING MULTIPLE LOVED ONES - ZOOM 1/6/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Annie Avitabile facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of multiple loved ones due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/88620038150?pwd=tPIsgXzIez3IJB2Ly7SoeSyNN8sYkm.1

Meeting ID: 886 2003 8150

Passcode: 358575 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, BRAVEHEARTS FALMOUTH MA 1/8/25 1:30-3:00 pm ET. 

Kerry Bickford facilitating.  

Learn to Cope Office 24 Spring Bars Road, Suite 1A, Falmouth MA.  

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

__________________

Wednesday - IN-PERSON, TAUNTON, MA 1/8/25 7:00-8:00 pm ET. 

Sandra Chase facilitating.  

Learn to Cope Office, 4 Court Street, #110, Taunton, MA.  

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

______________________

Wednesday - IN-PERSON, PORTLAND, ME 1/8/25 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Karen Walsh and Rachel Solomon facilitating. 

The Family Restored, 631 Stevens Avenue, Suite 205, Portland, ME 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

__________________  

Thursday - YOUNG PERSON MEETING - ZOOM 1/9/25 6:30-8:00 pm ET.  

Chloe Brosnan facilitating 

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82575673103?pwd=Xvzay1uQXyW00t8TBwwqTwElDbc7RV.1

Meeting ID: 825 7567 3103

Passcode: 847275

One tap mobile 13052241968

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Thursday - ZOOM MATTHEW’S CANDLE 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Mary Peckham facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/95139663151?pwd=8r0eLtlOC0xhvtIR82saCyPivUKO5W.1

Meeting ID: 951 3966 3151

Passcode: 735434 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Special In-Person Event! Saturday 1/11/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET. Just Smash It. SOLD OUT! Wait list available.

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Week of December 29, 2024

This week we have one in-person group, one holiday zoom group and two speciality zoom groups. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

2025

The new year can be a sneaky holiday for grievers. It’s not one we expect to hit us hard, but it can catch us off guard. It’s not just about turning the page, it’s the realization of stepping into a year that your person will never physically be part of. The first calendar year change felt like I was leaving Nick behind. I have come to see that I bring all that was Nick forward with me, no matter what the calendar year says. Whether you feel sadness, relief of leaving a hard year behind, or even hope, it’s all valid. At The Sun Will Rise, we’re here to support you through these challenging milestones. You’re not alone.

Read more New Year’s Resolutions for the Bereaved.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

NEW YEAR’S ZOOM GROUP

Start the new year with support. Join us on 1/1/25 for a Zoom grief group

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. JUST SMASH IT! Saturday 1/11/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET Avon MA Ever feel like smashing things to get your anger, sadness, frustration out? Here is your chance! Registration Required! Join us at Just Smash It and let go for a little bit. Come on down and smash away your frustrations in a safe and controlled environment. As with our previous events, we are requiring a $20 deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

2. Remembering Lives, Sharing Stories: An Interactive Grief Workshop Saturday 1/18/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET Easton MA This intimate and interactive workshop is designed to honor the memories of those who have died due to substance use related causes. Participants are invited to share personal stories and reflections about their loved ones in a supportive and compassionate environment. Through guided discussion and activities we will explore the power of talking about memories. Whether someone is looking to speak openly or simply listen to others, this workshop intends to provides a safe, brave space to connect, remember, and heal together. This workshop is being presented by Robyn Houston-Bean and was offered at the 2024 Finding Support In Grief Conference. Reserve your spot here. Questions? Email Robyn@thesunwillrise.org

3. SADOD's Psychoeducational Workshop: Finding Meaning in Grief Tuesday, January 28, 2025 6:30 PM 8:00 PM ET We are capable of experiencing hope, healing, well-being and growth in the face of loss. It is possible to make meaning of our losses and regain energy and spontaneity. Guest speaker, Randi Schalet, is a clinical psychologist who has been providing psychotherapy for thirty years. Randi is the peer facilitator for The Sun Will Rise Group in Berkeley CA. It is through her own lived experience as well as through reading and her belief in the value of peer grief support that Randi has begun to understand how a grieving person can find meaning again after a profound loss. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/finding-meaning-sadod. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org 

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Please pay special attention to meeting schedule changes throughout the holiday season.

Monday - IN-PERSON, WEYMOUTH MA 12/30/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Darlene Mersereau facilitating. 

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 12/30/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating. 

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or One tap mobile 16465588656

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New Year’s ZOOM Wednesday - 1/1/25 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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https://us06web.zoom.us/j/89339848976?pwd=ayd1jLi4bBYapnBuybFIkmTE7fhDfq.1

Meeting ID: 893 3984 8976

Passcode: 135336 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Thursday - GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS - ZOOM 1/2/25 5:30-6:30 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating. 

For grandparents that have experienced the death of a family member due to substance use now navigating grief and other issues with their grandchildren. The focus of this Thursday group will be on the grandchildren.

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Week of December 22, 2024

This week we have one in-person specialty group, two regular zoom groups and one specialty zoom group. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

IT’S NOT ONE THING

The holidays can bring a lot of different emotions for those of us grieving. Surrounding the traditions and gatherings we can experience secondary losses. When we experience the death of someone we care about, the impact ripples beyond just their absence. We may find ourselves missing shopping for them, preparing their favorite holiday dish or even the way they got annoyed while untangling a string of lights. These aren’t just memories, they’re changes in our traditions and the way we move through this season. Secondary losses also remind us of roles that are no longer filled. Whether it’s the one who carves the roast, organized the gift exchange, or in Nick’s case, the person who played Santa. And sometimes, the pain comes from realizing the holidays themselves may never feel the same again. It’s okay to feel this way. It’s okay to let yourself grieve those changes.

You’re not alone in this. The secondary losses are a part of the grief journey, but so is finding new ways to navigate them, especially during this season. Join us a peer grief group meeting this week to talk about some of these secondary losses and how others deal with them.

Sending you warmth, peace and the understanding of a community that walks with you.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

WINTER SOLSTICE CONCERT

Some of The Sun Will Rise team members celebrated the season at Cara Brindisi’s amazing concert at Mechanics Hall in Worcester MA! 

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. JUST SMASH IT! Saturday 1/11/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET AVON MA Come smash away your frustrations in a safe and controlled environment. Yes, you really get to break stuff!!! Don't miss out on this opportunity to let off some steam. See you there! Registration Required! As with our previous events, we are requiring a $20 deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Please pay special attention to meeting schedule changes throughout the holiday season.

Monday - ZOOM 12/23/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Don Lipstein facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84716470892

Meeting ID: 847 1647 0892 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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New Date for December only! Monday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 12/23/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating. 

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or 

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Thursday - ZOOM 12/26/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Janice Kaplan facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83820040334?pwd=NfHab5bBMWa61Lz8sj3W6BXqHLa1Ij.1

Meeting ID: 838 2004 0334

Passcode: 014316 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Sunday - YOUNG PERSON MEETING, IN-PERSON, MEDFORD, MA 12/29/24 10:00-11:30 am ET. 

Michelle Rueda and Chloe Brosnan co-facilitating. 

96 Winchester Street, Medford, MA.   

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about to substance use

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Week of December 15, 2024

Hello Friends,

This week we have two in-person regular groups, two regular zoom groups, three specialty zoom groups. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

THE POWER OF PEER SUPPORT

The holidays can be really hard when you’re grieving. After my son died, during the holiday season, it felt like the world was celebrating while I was just trying to get through each day. That made me upset and mad, at them and at the world. That’s why peer support is so important. It was at a grief group that I heard some of the other people expressing similar thoughts and it help normalize my feelings. I listened as people talked about things that helped and didn’t help them. And everyone was so supportive. At The Sun Will Rise, we’ve created spaces where people can show up exactly as they are whether they’re struggling, remembering, reflecting or just wanting to be with other people who understand. One group member (who gave me permission to share) recently emailed me and said, “I wanted to let you know how much these groups have helped me. I didn’t think I would get anything out of going to a group and I didn’t expect to talk, but listening to people share made me feel less alone and gave me the courage to share about my grief and to keep going. Something that I didn’t want to do. That connection helped me start to breathe again and I will be forever grateful for that.” It’s a reminder that even in the darkest moments, we can find support in each other.

If the holidays feel heavy this year, you don’t have to face them alone. Our peer grief support groups, both in-person and virtual, are open to anyone grieving a substance use related loss. Whether you want to talk, listen or just be with others who understand, we’re here for you. We can get through this holiday season together.

See the full list of upcoming meetings here.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

GRIEF DURING THE HOLIDAYS: HOW TO COPE. READ MORE FROM MASS GENERAL BRIGHAM.

TREE OF LIFE ART ACTIVITY

Group members created beautiful unique projects during a therapeutic art activity! Join us at our next in person event!

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. Continuing Bonds SADOD’s December Pyschoeducational Virtual Workshop Wednesday 12/18/24 5:00-6:30 pm ET. Bereaved individuals are often told to “move on” or to “let go.” Yet, for many, that is the last thing they want to do, or feel that they can do. Continuing Bonds is a grief theory that describes this very desire and for many, need, to stay connected with our deceased loved ones. This workshop will discuss the theory, how it can be helpful to the bereaved, and of course, ways to continue bonds with our loved ones. This workshop will be recorded and added to PSCP's On-Demand Workshop Library. By participating, you are acknowledging that your image, likeness, and comments may be included in the recording, which will be distributed at the sole discretion of Peer Support Community Partners. There is no charge to attend regardless of where you live. Registration Required. Questions? Contact Laura@sadod.org

2. JUST SMASH IT! Saturday 1/11/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET AVON MA Come smash away your frustrations in a safe and controlled environment. Yes, you really get to break stuff!!! Don't miss out on this opportunity to let off some steam. See you there! Registration Required! As with our previous events, we are requiring a $20 deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

Apply for NIDA’s New Community Engagement Workgroup

NIDA is forming a Community Engagement Workgroup to enhance the inclusion of people with lived experience in addiction research. This group, convened by the NACDA, will develop resources to guide researchers and community partners in fostering meaningful collaboration.

NIDA seeks individuals with experience in substance use, substance use disorders, or caregiving for someone who does. Participants will meet virtually in 2025 and early 2026 and will be compensated for their time.

Apply by January 10, 2025. Learn more on the Council Workgroups page.

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Please pay special attention to meeting schedule changes throughout the holiday season.

Monday - GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS - ZOOM  12/16/24 12:00-1:00 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating.

For grandparents that have experienced the death or estrangement of a grandchild due to substance use (theirs or their parents.)  The focus of this Monday  group will be on the grandparent.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/2334755647

Meeting ID: 233 475 5647 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Tuesday - MATTHEW’S CANDLE- ZOOM 12/17/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Mary Peckham facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/89662827586?pwd=XHOcXrYCO2TbOAAVAGU3CeaoHh7bEa.1

Meeting ID: 896 6282 7586

Passcode: 428871

One tap mobile 13092053325

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, QUINCY, MA 12/17/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating.

New Way Recovery, 85 Quincy Avenue, Quincy, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, CHARLESTOWN, MA 12/18/24 6:00-7:00 pm ET.

Shannon Lundin & Michael Cain facilitating.

St. John’s Church  27 Devens St 2nd Floor Charlestown MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - ZOOM 12/18/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Karen Walsh and Rachel Solomon facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - SIBLING ZOOM 12/18/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Miriah Corso facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a sibling due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81887342500?pwd=WLxNYnDMm8Juvs8OK1pbkrUJPMm1to.1

Meeting ID: 818 8734 2500

Passcode: 234576

One tap mobile 13092053325

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Thursday - LGBTQ+ ZOOM 12/19/24 6:00-7:30 PM ET.

Jill Shanahan (she/her) facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over and identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89951258443?pwd=MnJQVDEzWmIxaWdjWnBKN2Y4ZEh1dz09

Meeting ID: 899 5125 8443

Passcode: 841193 or

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Week of December 8, 2024

This week we have three in-person regular groups, one regular zoom group, seven speciality zoom groups, one holiday zoom and one in person event. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

THE LAST HOLIDAY CARD

Every year, I would send out Christmas cards with pictures of my kids. I’d always wonder, “How old is too old for a picture Christmas card?” But I kept doing it because it was a tradition and a way to share a little joy with friends and loved ones. The last one I sent was 10 years ago, in December 2014. It wasn’t perfect, just a snapshot of the three of them together. Five months later, Nick died on May 23, 2015 and I’ve never sent one since. It wasn’t a decision I made consciously at first. I just couldn’t bring myself to do it that year and as time passed it became clear that tradition didn’t feel right anymore. I couldn’t bear to send a card with just two of the kids. Grief changes us and the way we celebrate. It’s okay if you keep certain traditions, let others go or create new ones. There’s no right or wrong way to honor your person or navigate the holidays. Be gentle with yourself and know that whatever feels right for you is enough. You’re not alone. Please join us at any of our meetings this week, including our pre-holiday group. Read more: Tips to make the holiday season gentler for you.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

PRE-HOLIDAY SUPPORT

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Come support each other.

LEARN TO COPE ~ EASTHAMPTON MA

Attention Western MA members…. LTC has asked that we share this interest gathering flyer with you. For both people bereaved due to substance use related causes and people whose loved ones are affected by substance use issues. Please contact Kathy Iellamo if you are interested.

RESEARCH STUDY

Thanks to all who signed up for this study. The researcher is still looking for some ADDITIONAL FATHERS who are bereaved due to substance use to complete her study. Please email Laura Russin lrussin@pace.edu if interested in participating.

SAMHSA Now Accepting Public Comments on 2025 Draft National Guidelines for a Behavioral Health Coordinated System of Crisis Care

The National Guidelines 2025 will accomplish three goals: 
1.    Establish overarching principles for behavioral health crisis system transformation;
2.    Clarify the various elements that comprise the continuum; and 
3.    Offer guidance for communities so they can better understand the resources needed to implement and sustain behavioral health crisis systems and services.

You can review and leave your comments here by 12/15/24

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. LAST CALL! TREE OF LIFE ARTS & CRAFTS PROJECT Sunday 12/15/24 2:00-3:30 pm ET NORWELL MA At this event, artist Alissa Aronson of Bringing Smiles Unlimited, will guide you in creating your own unique Tree of Life art project using various objects. Alissa is experienced with utilizing arts and crafts as a therapeutic outlet. No previous experience is necessary, just bring your creativity! Materials will be provided, but feel free to bring items such as small pictures or items of your choosing. All ages welcome. Sign up now! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Natalie Patricio: 774-955-7752 jeepgirl474@gmail.com

2. Continuing Bonds SADOD’s December Pyschoeducational Virtual Workshop Wednesday 12/18/24 5:00-6:30 pm ET. Bereaved individuals are often told to “move on” or to “let go.” Yet, for many, that is the last thing they want to do, or feel that they can do. Continuing Bonds is a grief theory that describes this very desire and for many, need, to stay connected with our deceased loved ones. This workshop will discuss the theory, how it can be helpful to the bereaved, and of course, ways to continue bonds with our loved ones.  This workshop will be recorded and added to PSCP's On-Demand Workshop Library. By participating, you are acknowledging that your image, likeness, and comments may be included in the recording, which will be distributed at the sole discretion of Peer Support Community Partners. There is no charge to attend regardless of where you live. Registration Required. Questions? Contact Laura@sadod.org

4. JUST SMASH IT! Saturday 1/11/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET AVON MA Join us at Just Smash It and let go for a little bit. Come on down and smash away your frustrations in a safe and controlled environment. Yes, you really get to break stuff!!! Don't miss out on this opportunity to let off some steam. See you there! Registration Required! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Please pay special attention to meeting schedule changes throughout the holiday season.

Monday - IN-PERSON, WEYMOUTH MA 12/19/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Darlene Mersereau facilitating. 

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - MOM’S ONLY - ZOOM 12/09/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Tracy Carter and Karen Swindell facilitating. 

For mothers who have experienced the death of a child(ren) due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81904227569?pwd=YnSJwFTN6DFsHTYnPhfMHqUue9ZaL9.1

Meeting ID: 819 0422 7569

Passcode: 807237 or

One tap mobile 13052241968

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Monday - SUICIDE RELATED DEATH- ZOOM 12/09/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Don Lipstein facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.  Whether you know for sure that suicide was the cause of death or you are uncertain, you will find support here.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89707430582

Meeting ID: 897 0743 0582 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, NATHAN’S CIRCLE, WEST BARNSTABLE, MA 12/10/24 5:30-7:00 pm ET. 

Kerry and Richard Bickford facilitating. 

Compass Rose Center 1106 Main St West Barnstable MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, WINTHROP, MA 12/10/24 4:30-6:00 pm ET. 

JoAnn Rivieccio facilitating. 

196 Winthrop Street, Winthrop, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - PARTNER & SPOUSE - ZOOM 12/10/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Kar-Kate Parenteau facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a partner, spouse or significant other due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86578435343?pwd=avNFpCQpiLGCsKRKFEsexJj7E87gM5.1

Meeting ID: 865 7843 5343

Passcode: 287422 or

One tap mobile: 13052241968

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Tuesday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 12/10/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating. 

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or 

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Wednesday - GRIEVING MULTIPLE LOVED ONES - ZOOM 12/11/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Annie Avitabile facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of multiple loved ones due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/88620038150?pwd=tPIsgXzIez3IJB2Ly7SoeSyNN8sYkm.1

Meeting ID: 886 2003 8150

Passcode: 358575 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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New Date for December only!  Wednesday - PEOPLE IN RECOVERY - ZOOM 12/11/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Jill Shanahan facilitating/Leslie Lagos co-facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who identifies as being in recovery from any substance or alcohol who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.  

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82183952041

Meeting ID: 821 8395 2041 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Thursday - YOUNG PERSON MEETING - ZOOM 12/12/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Chloe Brosnan facilitating.

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82575673103?pwd=Xvzay1uQXyW00t8TBwwqTwElDbc7RV.1

Meeting ID: 825 7567 3103

Passcode: 847275

One tap mobile 13052241968

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Thursday - MATTHEW’S CANDLE ZOOM 12/12/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Mary Peckham facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or 

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Special Event!  Sunday, 12/15/24 2-3:30 pm ET. 

Tree of Life Arts & Crafts Project. Norwell, MA.  Sign up required

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Special Group! - Sunday - HOLIDAY PEER GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP - ZOOM 12/15/24 6:30-7:30 pm ET. 

Randi Schalet facilitating.  

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use and would like some additional support during the holiday season. 

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/85873754545?pwd=628Y002J4TOUEqjjNU92YXda7n3mLa.1

Meeting ID: 858 7375 4545

Passcode: 294732 or

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Week of December 1, 2024

This week we have four in-person regular groups, two regular zoom groups, one specialty zoom group and an in person event. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

FOCUSING

I had time, an extra-long weekend. I wanted to snuggle in, turn on the fireplace and read a book that been on my nightstand just waiting to be read. It’s not often I have spare time, so I was looking forward to the quietness and escape that a book brings. But when the moment came, I couldn’t concentrate. I kept picking up my book and putting it down again. I stared at the pages but the words wouldn’t sink in. My mind kept drifting off. Even after all these years grief has a way of making focusing difficult. Something that was just so easy before. It was and is annoying. If you’ve felt this too, you’re not alone. Grief doesn’t have a timeline. It lingers in ways we don’t always recognize. It can show up in the quiet moments when we think we’re finally ready to relax or enjoy something. And when that happens it’s easy to feel frustrated.

But here’s what I’ve learned. Those moments of stillness matter even if they don’t go as planned. It’s okay if you can’t focus or if your heart feels heavy. What matters is that you gave yourself the chance to pause. That’s no small thing.

So if you’ve been struggling with the same… if the holidays, the quiet moments or just getting through everyday feels harder than you expected, know that I see you. And know that other people experience these grief moments too. Be gentle with yourself. Here are some tips to help with focusing while grieving. Do you have some tips share? Post them on our private facebook page.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

WHAT IF, INSTEAD OF GRIEF

By Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer

Listen to Rosemerry here.

GIVING TUESDAY

As we approach Giving Tuesday, we’re inviting our community to help us continue offering free grief support to those who need it most. Every donation, no matter the size, helps ensure we can provide grief groups, events and resources at no cost. If you’re unable to give, we completely understand and just sharing our mission with others who might want to support us is equally impactful. Or perhaps you would like volunteer instead. Together, we can ensure no one has to face grief alone. GIVE HERE.

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. BEMIS FARMS EVERGREEN ANGEL WORKSHOP Thursday 12/5/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET SPENCER MA A few spots remain!!! At the workshop, you'll learn how to craft a beautiful evergreen angel perfect for the holiday season ensuring you leave with a stunning creation to decorate your home or give as a thoughtful gift. Don't miss out on this opportunity to make something truly special. Sign up now! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Aileen Lovejoy: 774-239-1905 aileen@peersupportcommunitypartners.com

2. TREE OF LIFE ARTS & CRAFTS PROJECT Sunday 12/15/24 2:00-3:30 pm ET NORWELL MA At this event, artist Alissa Aronson of Bringing Smiles Unlimited, will guide you in creating your own unique Tree of Life art project using various objects. Alissa is experienced with utilizing arts and crafts as a therapeutic outlet. No previous experience is necessary - just bring your creativity! Materials will be provided, but feel free to bring items such as small pictures or artifacts of your choosing. All ages welcome. Sign up now! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Natalie Patricio: 774-955-7752 jeepgirl474@gmail.com

3. Continuing Bonds SADOD’s December Pyschoeducational Virtual Workshop Wednesday 12/18/24 5:00-6:30 pm ET. Bereaved individuals are often told to “move on” or to “let go.” Yet, for many, that is the last thing they want to do, or feel that they can do. Continuing Bonds is a grief theory that describes this very desire and for many, need, to stay connected with our deceased loved ones. This workshop will discuss the theory, how it can be helpful to the bereaved, and of course, ways to continue bonds with our loved ones.  This workshop will be recorded and added to PSCP's On-Demand Workshop Library. By participating, you are acknowledging that your image, likeness, and comments may be included in the recording, which will be distributed at the sole discretion of Peer Support Community Partners. There is no charge to attend regardless of where you live. Registration Required. Questions? Contact Laura@sadod.org

4. JUST SMASH IT! Saturday 1/11/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET AVON MA Join us at Just Smash It and let go for a little bit. Come on down and smash away your frustrations in a safe and controlled environment. Yes, you really get to break stuff!!! Don't miss out on this opportunity to let off some steam. See you there! Registration Required! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Please pay special attention to meeting schedule changes throughout the holiday season.

Monday - ZOOM - 12/2/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Aileen Lovejoy & Deb Dowd-Foley facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86930927959?pwd=i4N7hWEhAtD4HPnBKCBi9LGEF7AGbt.1

Meeting ID: 869 3092 7959

Passcode: 239207 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Monday - IN-PERSON BERKELEY, CA 12/2/24 7:00-8:30 pm PT.

Randi Schalet facilitating.  

Berkeley Town House/Library Room, 2550 Dana Street, Berkeley, CA.  (Text 857-540-9596 to be buzzed into the building).  

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, BRAVEHEARTS FALMOUTH MA 12/4/24 1:30-3:00 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating.  

Learn to Cope Office 24 Spring Bars Road, Suite 1A, Falmouth MA.  

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, TAUNTON, MA 12/4/24 7:00-8:00 pm ET.

Sandra Chase facilitating.  

Learn to Cope Office, 4 Court Street, #110, Taunton, MA.  

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, PORTLAND, ME  12/4/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Karen Walsh and Rachel Solomon facilitating.

The Family Restored, 631 Stevens Avenue, Suite 205, Portland, ME

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - ZOOM 12/4/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/89339848976?pwd=ayd1jLi4bBYapnBuybFIkmTE7fhDfq.1

Meeting ID: 893 3984 8976

Passcode: 135336 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Thursday - GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS - ZOOM 12/5/24 5:30-6:30 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating.

For grandparents that have experienced the death of a family member due to substance use now navigating grief and other issues with their grandchildren. The focus of this Thursday group will be on the grandchildren.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/2334755647

Meeting ID: 233 475 5647 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Special Event! Thursday-12/5/24 6-7:30 pm ET. Bemis Farm Evergreen Angel Workshop. Registration is required. Sign up here.

Questions? Please contact Aileen Lovejoy: 774-239-1905 aileen@peersupportcommunitypartners.com

Do you know someone bereaved due to substance use related causes that would appreciate our weekly email?

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“Please be happy. The sun will rise” ~Nick Bean

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Week of November 24, 2024

This week we have two in-person regular groups, one hybrid regular group, one regular zoom group, three speciality zoom groups and a virtual holiday meeting. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

Thanksgiving Week

Holidays can be challenging when you’re grieving. It’s okay to feel what you feel and it’s okay to honor your person in a way that feels right to you. Start by setting boundaries for yourself. You decide what feels manageable this year. It’s okay to skip traditions or create new ones that better suit where you are right now. If being around others feels overwhelming, plan some quiet time for yourself. If you’re attending a gathering, plan an exit strategy in case you need a break. Honoring your person can also help. Consider cooking their favorite dish, sharing a memory about them at the table or lighting a candle in their honor. I’ll be cooking plenty of pumpkin bread and remembering just how much Nick loved it. Gratitude on Thanksgiving doesn’t have to ignore grief. Instead, focus on what feels meaningful to you. Maybe you’re thankful for a moment of kindness, the support of others, your loyal pet, a warm bed to crawl into or other small comforts that have helped you through. Writing down a few things, big or small, that bring you peace can be grounding. Try this Thanksgiving activity brought to you by What’s Your Grief, the Grateful Remembrance Jar. Most importantly, remember that you don’t have to navigate this alone. The Sun Will Rise is here for you and we are grateful to have you in our grief community.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

Special Thanksgiving Virtual Meeting Hosted By The Journey

Please note, this meeting uses the GOTO meeting platform and not Zoom, so please download before the meeting time.

Thursday Nov 28, 2024, 7:00 – 8:30 PM ET
Kathryn Peirce facilitating
Join Meeting
https://meet.goto.com/149821365
You can also dial in using your phone.
Access Code: 149-821-365
United States: +1 (312) 757-3121
Get the app now and be ready when your first meeting starts:
https://meet.goto.com/install

NOVEMBER IS CHILDREN’S GRIEF AWARENESS MONTH

The Dougy Center has so many resources and tips for families. Check out their full Flip The Script Campaign! Here is one tip….

Be Present

This Children’s Grief Awareness Month let’s "Flip the

Script" by valuing presence over words. Remember

that sometimes, the best support we can offer a

child or teen who is grieving doesn't come from

the words we say but from simply being there.

Consider these:

• Sit quietly with them, letting the young

person lead the way in silence or sharing.

• Engage in activities they enjoy, showing

you're there for support.

Your presence can be the comforting gesture that

words sometimes cannot match. Let's show up with

our undivided attention and care.

HOLIDAY SUPPORT

This video from SADOD addresses the realities and challenges of the holidays. Just click on the picture, complete the registration and the video will download at no cost to you.

SADOD IS HIRING

Do you want to help provide peer grief support to Direct Service Providers & Frontline Care Workers? Check out the qualifications on their webpage.

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. SADOD’S PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL WORKSHOP~ MINDFULNESS IN GRIEF. Tuesday November 26, 2024 6:30-8:00 pm ET Join in for a discussion on the beneficial role that Mindfulness can play in our grief journeys. You will discuss tips for getting started and engage in some introductory Mindfulness practices during the workshop. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/mindfulness-grief-workshop. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org

2. LAST CALL FOR TICKETS! Must be reserved by Wednesday 11/27/24. BEMIS FARMS EVERGREEN ANGEL WORKSHOP Thursday 12/5/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET SPENCER MA At the workshop, you'll learn how to craft a beautiful evergreen angel perfect for the holiday season ensuring you leave with a stunning creation to decorate your home or give as a thoughtful gift. Don't miss out on this opportunity to make something truly special. Sign up now! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Aileen Lovejoy: 774-239-1905 aileen@peersupportcommunitypartners.com

3. TREE OF LIFE ARTS & CRAFTS PROJECT Sunday 12/15/24 2:00-3:30 pm ET NORWELL MA At this event, artist Alissa Aronson of Bringing Smiles Unlimited, will guide you in creating your own unique Tree of Life art project using various objects. Alissa is experienced with utilizing arts and crafts as a therapeutic outlet. No previous experience is necessary - just bring your creativity! Materials will be provided, but feel free to bring items such as small pictures or artifacts of your choosing. All ages welcome. Sign up now! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Natalie Patricio: 774-955-7752 jeepgirl474@gmail.com

4. New event: JUST SMASH IT! Saturday 1/11/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET AVON MA Join us at Just Smash It and let go for a little bit. Come on down and smash away your frustrations in a safe and controlled environment. Yes, you really get to break stuff!!! Don't miss out on this opportunity to let off some steam. See you there! Registration Required! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Please pay special attention to meeting schedule changes throughout the holiday season.

Monday - IN-PERSON, WEYMOUTH MA 11/25/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Darlene Mersereau facilitating. 

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - ZOOM 11/25/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Don Lipstein facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84716470892

Meeting ID: 847 1647 0892 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

__________________

Tuesday - HYBRID - LEARNING TO COPE WITH GRIEF MEETING - IN-PERSON & ZOOM, GLOUCESTER, MA 11/26/24 7:00-8:00 pm ET. 

Colleen and Gordon Bullard facilitating. 

CORE Peer Recovery and Resource Center 11 - 15 Parker Street, Gloucester, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83349371338?pwd=RXM5RnRINGJKL21HTFhiSVYyR1NCdz09

Meeting ID: 833 4937 1338

Passcode: 560270

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, BRIDGEWATER, MA 11/26/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Annie Avitabile facilitating. 

Trinity Episcopal Church 91 Main St Bridgewater MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 11/26/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating. 

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or One tap mobile 16465588656

______________________

Tuesday - PARTNER & SPOUSE - ZOOM 11/26/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Kar-Kate Parenteau facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a partner, spouse or significant other due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86578435343?pwd=avNFpCQpiLGCsKRKFEsexJj7E87gM5.1

Meeting ID: 865 7843 5343

Passcode: 287422 or

One tap mobile: 13052241968

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Wednesday - PEOPLE IN RECOVERY - ZOOM 11/27/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Jill Shanahan facilitating/Leslie Lagos co-facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who identifies as being in recovery from any substance or alcohol who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82183952041

Meeting ID: 821 8395 2041 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

Do you know someone bereaved due to substance use related causes that would appreciate our weekly email?

Have them sign up here for support!

Join our private Facebook page.

To view the newsletter on our website, please enter the password: grief

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Week of November 17, 2024

This week we have two in-person regular groups, two in-person specialty groups, three regular zoom groups and two speciality zoom groups. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

It’s up to you to say their names…

This time of year gratitude is everywhere but for those of us grieving, it can feel complicated. One thing I’ve found comfort in is the power of saying my son Nick’s name, sharing his stories, and finding ways to honor his memory. He was and still is a part of my life and always will be. Naming our loved ones and friends that are no longer here physically can be a simple yet powerful way to keep their light shining and it’s also a reminder that we’re not alone in remembering. This holiday season, say their name. It will give everyone else permission to say their name too.

I offer you the chance to post their name and picture on our private facebook page and we will say their names together. If you don’t have social media, but would like me to post your person for you, just send me a name and picture I will post it for you.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

PARTNERS/SPOUSE GROUP CLAYROOM OUTING, AFTERNOON TEA & THE WEYMOUTH GROUP AT ALICE’S HOUSE

Lots of wonderful community building happening. We would love to see you at one of our next events! A new virtual event will also be posted soon for those not in Massachusetts!

ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. SADOD’S PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL WORKSHOP~ MINDFULNESS IN GRIEF. Tuesday November 26, 2024 6:30-8:00 pm ET Join in for a discussion on the beneficial role that Mindfulness can play in our grief journeys. You will discuss tips for getting started and engage in some introductory Mindfulness practices during the workshop. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/mindfulness-grief-workshop. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org

2. BEMIS FARMS EVERGREEN ANGEL WORKSHOP Thursday 12/5/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET SPENCER MA At the workshop, you'll learn how to craft a beautiful evergreen angel perfect for the holiday season ensuring you leave with a stunning creation to decorate your home or give as a thoughtful gift. Don't miss out on this opportunity to make something truly special. Sign up now! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Aileen Lovejoy: 774-239-1905 aileen@peersupportcommunitypartners.com

3. TREE OF LIFE ARTS & CRAFTS PROJECT Sunday 12/15/24 2:00-3:30 pm ET NORWELL MA At this event, artist Alissa Aronson of Bringing Smiles Unlimited, will guide you in creating your own unique Tree of Life art project using various objects. Alissa is experienced with utilizing arts and crafts as a therapeutic outlet. No previous experience is necessary - just bring your creativity! Materials will be provided, but feel free to bring items such as small pictures or artifacts of your choosing. All ages welcome. Sign up now! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Natalie Patricio: 774-955-7752 jeepgirl474@gmail.com

4. New event: JUST SMASH IT! Saturday 1/11/25 2:00-3:30 pm ET AVON MA Join us at Just Smash It and let go for a little bit. Come on down and smash away your frustrations in a safe and controlled environment. Yes, you really get to break stuff!!! Don't miss out on this opportunity to let off some steam. See you there! Registration Required!As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Judy Kelly: 781-264-0557 judyannkelly@gmail.com

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Monday - Christian Faith Based Hope After Loss- IN-PERSON MARLBOROUGH, MA 11/18/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Cheryl Juaire facilitating.  

Greater Grace Christian Fellowship, 187 Pleasant St Marlborough, MA. 

 For anyone 18 and over of the Christian faith who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.  

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Tuesday - ZOOM THIS MONTH - MATTHEW’S CANDLE, 11/19/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Mary Peckham facilitating.  

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/89684669639?pwd=SE5E48UIPkOZOcrbr6vuoc5f3JbmJP.1

Meeting ID: 896 8466 9639

Passcode: 234648 or

One tap mobile 13052241968

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, QUINCY, MA 11/19/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating.  

New Way Recovery, 85 Quincy Avenue, Quincy, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, CHARLESTOWN, MA 11/20/24 6:00-7:00 pm ET. 

Shannon Lundin & Michael Cain facilitating. 

St. John’s Church  27 Devens St 2nd Floor Charlestown MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - ZOOM 11/20/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Karen Walsh and Rachel Solomon facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86470429283

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Wednesday - SIBLING ZOOM 11/20/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Miriah Corso facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a sibling due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81887342500?pwd=WLxNYnDMm8Juvs8OK1pbkrUJPMm1to.1

Meeting ID: 821 8395 2041or

One tap mobile 16469313860

________________

Thursday - LGBTQ+ ZOOM 11/21/24 6:00-7:30 PM ET.

Jill Shanahan (she/her) facilitating.  

For anyone 18 and over and identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89951258443?pwd=MnJQVDEzWmIxaWdjWnBKN2Y4ZEh1dz09 Meeting ID: 899 5125 8443

Passcode: 841193 or

One tap mobile +16469313860

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Thursday - ZOOM 11/21/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Janice Kaplan facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/88929097996?pwd=08afsgDWJmBteO5m1sKdZ0tteigCZm.1

Meeting ID: 889 2909 7996

Passcode: 687107 or

One tap mobile 13092053325

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Sunday - YOUNG PERSON MEETING, IN-PERSON, MEDFORD, MA 11/24/24 10:00-11:30 am ET. 

Michelle Rueda and Chloe Brosnan co-facilitating.

96 Winchester Street, Medford, MA.  

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about to substance use.

Do you know someone bereaved due to substance use related causes that would appreciate our weekly email?

Have them sign up here for support!

Join our private Facebook page.

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Week of November 10, 2024

Hello Friends,

This week we have three in-person regular groups, one regular zoom group, one holiday zoom group and six speciality zoom groups. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

November is Children’s Grief Awareness Month

When my son died, it was hard to know how to support my other children who were grieving such an overwhelming loss especially when I was just trying to make it through the days. I am so glad that there are so many wonderful resources like The Children’s Room, The National Alliance for Children's Grief, The Dougy Center and more that can provide guidance and support for families. Here are some tips I found helpful:

• Listen without judgment: Create space for them to share feelings whenever they’re ready.

• Provide stability: Routine and reliable support help kids feel safe.

• Validate their feelings: Let them know every feeling is okay.

• Encourage creative expression: Art or play can help them express what’s hard to put into words.

• Stay available: Grief doesn’t fade, it changes, many times returning at different ages or milestones.

Visit these resources for more info on helping kids cope and connect this month.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

Pre-Thanksgiving zoom link is at bottom of newsletter.

RESEARCH STUDY

Request for parents who are bereaved due to substance use. Please email lrussin@pace.edu if interested in participating.

INTO LIGHT PROJECT

A few pictures from the The Gifting Gathering of the Massachusetts INTO LIGHT Project.

ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. SADOD’S PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL WORKSHOP~ MINDFULNESS IN GRIEF. Tuesday November 26, 2024 6:30-8:00 pm ET Join in for a discussion on the beneficial role that Mindfulness can play in our grief journeys. You will discuss tips for getting started and engage in some introductory Mindfulness practices during the workshop. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/mindfulness-grief-workshop. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org

2. New Event! BEMIS FARMS EVERGREEN ANGEL WORKSHOP Thursday 12/5/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET At the workshop, you'll learn how to craft a beautiful evergreen angel perfect for the holiday season ensuring you leave with a stunning creation to decorate your home or give as a thoughtful gift. Don't miss out on this opportunity to make something truly special. Sign up now! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Aileen Lovejoy: 774-239-1905 aileen@peersupportcommunitypartners.com

3. New Event! TREE OF LIFE ARTS & CRAFTS PROJECT Sunday 12/15/24 2:00-3:30 pm ET At this event, artist Alissa Aronson of Bringing Smiles Unlimited, will guide you in creating your own unique Tree of Life art project using various objects. Alissa is experienced with utilizing arts and crafts as a therapeutic outlet. No previous experience is necessary - just bring your creativity! Materials will be provided, but feel free to bring items such as small pictures or artifacts of your choosing. All ages welcome. Sign up now! As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Natalie Patricio: 774-955-7752 jeepgirl474@gmail.com

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Monday - IN-PERSON WEYMOUTH MA 11/11/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET

Darlene Mersereau facilitating. 

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - MOM’S ONLY - ZOOM 11/11/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Tracy Carter and Karen Swindell facilitating. 

For mothers who have experienced the death of a child(ren) due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81904227569?pwd=YnSJwFTN6DFsHTYnPhfMHqUue9ZaL9.1

Meeting ID: 819 0422 7569

Passcode: 807237 or

One tap mobile 13052241968

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Monday - SUICIDE RELATED DEATH- ZOOM 11/11/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Don Lipstein facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.  Whether you know for sure that suicide was the cause of death or you are uncertain, you will find support here.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89707430582

Meeting ID: 897 0743 0582 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, NATHAN’S CIRCLE, WEST BARNSTABLE, MA 11/12/24 5:30-7:00 pm ET. 

Kerry and Richard Bickford facilitating. 

Compass Rose Center 1106 Main St West Barnstable MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, WINTHROP, MA 11/12/24 4:30-6:00 pm ET. 

JoAnn Rivieccio facilitating. 

196 Winthrop Street, Winthrop, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - PARTNER & SPOUSE - ZOOM 11/12/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Kar-Kate Parenteau facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a partner, spouse or significant other due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86578435343?pwd=avNFpCQpiLGCsKRKFEsexJj7E87gM5.1

Meeting ID: 865 7843 5343

Passcode: 287422 or

One tap mobile: 13052241968

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Tuesday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 11/12/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating. 

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or 

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Wednesday - GRIEVING MULTIPLE LOVED ONES - ZOOM 11/13/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Annie Avitabile facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of multiple loved ones due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/88620038150?pwd=tPIsgXzIez3IJB2Ly7SoeSyNN8sYkm.1

Meeting ID: 886 2003 8150

Passcode: 358575 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Thursday - YOUNG PERSON MEETING - ZOOM 11/14/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Chloe Brosnan facilitating.

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82575673103?pwd=Xvzay1uQXyW00t8TBwwqTwElDbc7RV.1

Meeting ID: 825 7567 3103

Passcode: 847275

One tap mobile 13052241968

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Thursday - IN-PERSON, MATTHEW’S CANDLE, KINGSTON, MA—TO BE HELD ON ZOOM THIS MONTH! 11/14/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Mary Peckham facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/84896993660?pwd=acqYICO1JBaZULxjDwQ9wlVezZJmW6.1

Meeting ID: 848 9699 3660

Passcode: 186744

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Sunday - PRE-THANKSGIVING HOLIDAY PEER GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP - ZOOM 11/17/24 6:30-7:30 pm ET. 

David and Karen Swindell facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use and would like some additional support during the holiday season.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or 

One tap mobile 16465588656

‘Tis a Fearful Thing

Read by Darlene Mersereau at the INTO LIGHT closing ceremony

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The Sun Will Rise Weekly Update

Week of November 3, 2024

Hello Friends,

This week we have four in-person regular groups, one in-person specialty group, two regular zoom groups, one specialty zoom group, one special in-person event and one virtual workshop. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

HOLIDAY SUPPORT

We're holding our Thanksgiving grief support group earlier this year on 11/17/24, because we know that the holiday season can be especially challenging. Grief can feel sharper when it seems like the world is celebrating and that contrast often brings up feelings of loneliness or stress. Meeting together before the holiday allows us to talk openly about these feelings, plan ahead, and connect with others who truly understand.

This group will give everyone a space to share, prepare, and support each other whether that’s about managing family gatherings, honoring loved ones or just finding a bit of peace. You don’t have to navigate these days alone. Read some tips for navigating this holiday.

The zoom link will be provided in the next newsletter.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

YOGA NIDRA & SOUND HEALING

An amazing event according to attendees! Building strong grief support communities town by town!

Please join us at our next event at The Vintage Tea & Cake Company in Belmont MA! Sign up required.

INTO LIGHT PROJECT

As the Massachusetts exhibit winds to a close, INTO LIGHT Project wanted us to let you know that they are currently accepting submissions for their upcoming New Hampshire exhibit and will be opening the submissions soon for Utah. Share your story here. 

ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1.KEYS 365 Virtual Suicide Prevention Workshop by Deb Casello Tuesday, November 5, 2024 6:30-8:00 pm ET This free KEYS 365 class is designed to empower participants with essential tools to recognize risk factors and warning signs of suicide, understand recommended suicide prevention verbiage, engage in open discussions, and foster hope and help-seeking behaviors.  Self-care and resilience-building techniques for attendees to practice and share with others are included. This dynamic session focuses on early intervention and is interactive; participants will actively engage with each other as they are introduced to life-saving suicide prevention skills. Please pre-register here.

2. LAST CALL! Afternoon Tea Belmont MA Sunday November 10, 2024 12:001:30 pm ET Come join The Sun Will Rise for a relaxing afternoon of tea and community before the hustle and bustle of the upcoming holidays. Enjoy great food and conversation in this small and quaint tea room. Each guest will receive their own pot of tea in a delicious flavor of their choice. There will also be a variety of scrumptious finger sandwiches, scones, mini desserts, and cookies for all. Vegetarian and GF options are also available. As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Contact Natalie Patricio at jeepgirl474@gmail  or (774)955-7752 with any questions and to inform of any food allergies or special accommodations. Registration is required. Sign up here!

3. SADOD’S PSYCHOEDUCATIONAL WORKSHOP~ MINDFULNESS IN GRIEF. Tuesday November 26, 2024 6:30-8:00 pm ET The number of emotions that we experience when we are grieving the death of somebody we care about can be overwhelming. We are often told to “not think about it” or “let go,” which are much easier said than done. In comes Mindfulness- a practice in which we lean inwards and pay non-judgmental attention to our thoughts, feelings, the surrounding environment, and more. By doing the opposite of “not thinking about it,” we may disarm the hold that these thoughts and feelings have on us.Join in for a discussion on the beneficial role that Mindfulness can play in our grief journeys. You will discuss tips for getting started and engage in some introductory Mindfulness practices during the workshop. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/mindfulness-grief-workshop. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Monday - ZOOM - 11/4/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Aileen Lovejoy & Deb Dowd-Foley facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86930927959?pwd=i4N7hWEhAtD4HPnBKCBi9LGEF7AGbt.1

Meeting ID: 869 3092 7959

Passcode: 239207 or

One tap mobile +16469313860

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Monday - Christian Faith Based Hope After Loss- IN-PERSON MARLBOROUGH, MA 11/4/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Cheryl Juaire facilitating.

Greater Grace Christian Fellowship, 187 Pleasant St Marlborough MA.

For anyone 18 and over of the Christian faith who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use. 

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NEW OFFERING! Monday - IN-PERSON BERKELEY, CA 11/4/24 7:00-8:30 pm PT.

Randi Schalet facilitating.

Berkeley Town House/Library Room, 2550 Dana Street, Berkeley, CA. (Text 857-540-9596 to be buzzed into the building).

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, BRAVEHEARTS FALMOUTH MA 11/6/24 1:30-3:00 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating.

Learn to Cope Office 24 Spring Bars Road, Suite 1A, Falmouth MA.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, TAUNTON, MA 11/6/24 7:00-8:00 pm ET.

Sandra Chase facilitating.  

Learn to Cope Office, 4 Court Street, #110, Taunton, MA.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, PORTLAND, ME  11/6/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Karen Walsh and Rachel Solomon facilitating.

The Family Restored, 631 Stevens Avenue, Suite 205, Portland, ME

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - ZOOM 11/6/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/89339848976?pwd=ayd1jLi4bBYapnBuybFIkmTE7fhDfq.1

Meeting ID: 893 3984 8976

Passcode: 135336 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Thursday - GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS - ZOOM 11/7/24 5:30-6:30 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating.

For grandparents that have experienced the death of a family member due to substance use now navigating grief and other issues with their grandchildren. The focus of this Thursday group will be on the grandchildren.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/2334755647

Meeting ID: 233 475 5647 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Special In-Person Event! Sunday 11/10/24 12:00-1:30 pm ET. Afternoon Tea - The Vintage Tea and Cake Company, Belmont, MA.

Registration is required. Sign up here.

POEM WRITTEN BY FACILITATOR RACHEL SOLOMON

The first section is read from the griever’s perspective. The second section is read from the perspective of the person that died. And the last paragraph is read from both of them together.

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Week of October 27, 2024

Hello Friends,

This week we have one in-person regular group, one hybrid (both in-person & zoom ) group, one regular zoom group, two specialty zoom groups and one special event. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

HALLOWEEN & DIA DE LOS MUERTOS

As Halloween approaches, followed closely by Día de los Muertos, you may find this season stirring up different emotions and feelings. I’m always the first to say I can’t stand to see the Halloween skeletons, gore and graves on front lawns around town. It gives me a bit of anxiety. For other people, that may not affect you at all. Halloween can bring a longing for past memories or a heightened awareness of your person missing from the family trick or treating or costume party events. Like grief in general, holiday grief is as unique as each one of us.

A different holiday is Día de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead. This day provides a beautiful opportunity to honor loved ones in a way that feels intentional and sacred. In Mexican tradition, families create ofrendas which are altars with photos, candles, favorite foods, flowers and mementos to welcome the spirits of those who have died. This allows people to remember, honor, and feel close to the people they miss. Even if you don’t celebrate this tradition personally, the spirit of Día de los Muertos can inspire you to create a small space to remember your loved one by maybe lighting a candle, looking through photos, or simply taking a quiet moment to feel their presence in your lives.

If this time of year brings up difficult memories, know that it's okay to feel a mixture of emotions, to celebrate, or to keep things low key. Read more here. It can really help to talk to others about these feelings so if you need support, know we are here to listen.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

SMALL SAMPLING OF PHOTOS FROM GRIEF CONFERENCE

SPREADING THE WORD ABOUT PEER GRIEF SUPPORT

We’d love to have volunteers everywhere! Fill out this form if you can help!

ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1.Yoga Nidra & Sound Healing Saturday, November 2, 2024 4:00 PM 5:00 PM Auburn MA LAST CALL!!!! No experience needed. Instructors will create a safe space for healing and calming the body for people bereaved due to substance use related causes. Release. Reset. Renew. Relish in a 15 minute all levels gentle stretch Vinyasa yoga session as we then settle into our Yoga Nidra Practice. Grab a scented eye towel and a blanket as we fall into a deep guided meditation. All while bathing in the vibrations & reverberations of beautifully orchestrated sound waves. Registration is required. As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Aileen Lovejoy: 774-239-1905 aileen@peersupportcommunitypartners.com REGISTER HERE!

2. KEYS 365 Virtual Suicide Prevention Workshop by Deb Casello Tuesday, November 5, 2024 6:30-8:00 pm ET This free KEYS 365 class is designed to empower participants with essential tools to recognize risk factors and warning signs of suicide, understand recommended suicide prevention verbiage, engage in open discussions, and foster hope and help-seeking behaviors.  Self-care and resilience-building techniques for attendees to practice and share with others are included. This dynamic session focuses on early intervention and is interactive; participants will actively engage with each other as they are introduced to life-saving suicide prevention skills. Please pre-register here.

3. Afternoon Tea Belmont MA Sunday November 10, 2024 12:001:30 pm ET Come join The Sun Will Rise for a relaxing afternoon of tea and community before the hustle and bustle of the upcoming holidays. Enjoy great food and conversation with your peers in this small and quaint tea room. Each guest will receive their own pot of tea in a delicious flavor of their choice. There will also be a variety of scrumptious finger sandwiches, scones, mini desserts, and cookies for all. Vegetarian and GF options are also available. Space is limited to 15 people. As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Contact Natalie Patricio at jeepgirl474@gmail  or (774)955-7752 with any questions and to inform of any food allergies or special accommodations. Registration is required. Sign up here!

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Monday - GRIEVING GRANDPARENTS - ZOOM 10/28/24 12:00-1:00 pm ET.

Kerry Bickford facilitating. 

For grandparents that have experienced death of their child or grandchild or who are dealing with grandchild estrangement due to substance use (theirs or their parents.)  

The focus of this Monday group will be on the grandparent.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/2334755647

Meeting ID: 233 475 5647 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Monday - IN-PERSON, WEYMOUTH MA 10/28/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET. 

Darlene Mersereau facilitating. 

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - ZOOM 10/28/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Don Lipstein facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84716470892

Meeting ID: 847 1647 0892 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Tuesday - HYBRID - LEARNING TO COPE WITH GRIEF MEETING - IN-PERSON & ZOOM, GLOUCESTER, MA 10/29/24 7:00-8:00 pm ET. 

Colleen and Gordon Bullard facilitating. 

CORE Peer Recovery and Resource Center 11 - 15 Parker Street, Gloucester, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/83349371338?pwd=RXM5RnRINGJKL21HTFhiSVYyR1NCdz09

Meeting ID: 833 4937 1338

Passcode: 560270

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Tuesday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 10/29/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating.

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or 

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Special In-Person Event! Saturday 11/2/24 4:00-5:00 pm ET. Yoga Nidra & Sound Healing Auburn, MA. 

For more details and to register (required) for this free event, go to Yoga Nidra & Sound Healing registration.

POEM READ BY LESLIE LAGOS AT THE GRIEF CONFERENCE

When Words Fail by Julia Delaney

In your pain, my words falter, as if tripping over their own inadequacy,
I search, I rummage through the language,
yet, no word feels enough, no phrase sufficient.

I wish I could reach out,
pluck a star from the night sky to light your path,
gather the sun’s warmth to soothe your chilled heart,
but all I have, all I can humbly offer,
just a warm, quiet space in my heart.

It’s not a grand gesture, no fireworks, no grand orchestra,
just a quiet room filled with soft light,
a warm corner, an open chair,
a silent invitation to simply be, be you, here, now…

This space, it’s here for your sorrow, for your unshed tears,
for your sighs, for the words caught in your throat,
for the memories that sting and bite,
for the laughter that’s lost its way,
for the immense love unexpressed,
pulsating with a longing to burst, to release,
trembling at the seams of silence, desperate to be free…

And in this quiet space, you are welcome,
welcome to grieve, to rage, to remember, to laugh,
to weep, to whisper their name, or to sit in silence,
in the echo of what was, knowing it’s heard, it’s held,
it’s honored….

There are no expectations here,
no timetable for your grief, no ‘shoulds’ or ‘musts’,
just the promise of a presence,
the steadiness of a heartbeat echoing your own.

And so, in my silent offering,
I hope you find a gentle comfort, a space where your pain
doesn’t need to shrink or hide,
where it is seen, understood, embraced,
in the safety of this shared silence,
in the depth of the warm heart,
where you know, you’re not alone,
we’re all connected in Love.

Because even when words fail us,
when they crumble under the weight of the pain,
we have this, this shared space,
this quiet understanding,
this resilient bond of shared humanity,
where even in grief,
you are home.

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Week of October 20, 2024

Hello Friends,

This week we have one in-person regular group, two in-person speciality groups, one regular zoom group, three specialty zoom groups and one special location grief group. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

The 2024 SADOD Finding Support in Grief Conference

To those who attended, your presence made this weekend’s conference truly special. It was incredible to see so many people come together in support of one another. The way you each showed up, whether by sharing your story, listening with compassion, or simply holding space, you created an atmosphere of healing and connection that was so powerful. This weekend reminded us of the power of community in peer grief support and how deeply we need each other as we navigate loss. I'm so grateful for the collective strength we found in each other.

The words I ended the Glow Stick Ceremony ring true for all of you.

Our hope is that you came to see that your grief is welcome here and that your person will always be remembered and loved with no stigma or shame. My wish is that on a day when you feel so alone, that you will know that there is someone out there willing to listen over and over again to your grief story and the story of your person. For those stories are always welcome here.

More photos will follow next week.

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO CARA BRINDISI SINGING AT THE GLOWSTICK CEREMONY

INTO LIGHT

Last opportunity for grief support at the INTO LIGHT exhibit in NORTON MA. A peer grief group facilitated by Robyn Houston-Bean will be held 10/27/24 at 11:00 am to 1200 pm. Please join us.

NEWSWEEK IS LOOKING FOR BEREAVED PARENTS TO SHARE THEIR STORIES

Individuals can choose a self-written essay of 800-2,000 words with an image of their loved one. Clips from interviews may be posted to social media with individuals' permission. Submit here.

ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. October Psychoeducational Workshop 10/22/24 6:30 pm Join SADOD for a discussion on boundaries and coping strategies for the holiday season, as well as an opportunity to find comfort in sharing a space with others who feel similarly. Most importantly, we hope this workshop will convey the fact that you are not alone in feeling apprehensive about the holidays. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/sadod-holidays. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org

3. Peer Grief Support Group at the INTO LIGHT Project Wheaton College 31 E. Main St. The Beard & Weil Galleries. Norton MA 10/27/24 11:00 am ET. Last opportunity for a grief support group time together at this event space.

4. Yoga Nidra & Sound Healing Saturday, November 2, 2024 4:00 PM 5:00 PM Sally McDermott Dance Center Auburn MA Instructors will create a safe space for healing and calming the body for people bereaved due to substance use related causes. Release. Reset. Renew. Relish in a 15 minute all levels gentle stretch Vinyasa yoga session as we then settle into our Yoga Nidra Practice. Grab a scented eye towel and a blanket as we fall into a deep guided meditation. All while bathing in the vibrations & reverberations of beautifully orchestrated Soundwaves. Space is limited to 15 people. Registration is required. As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Questions? Please contact Aileen Lovejoy: 774-239-1905 aileen@peersupportcommunitypartners.com REGISTER HERE!

5. KEYS 365 Virtual Suicide Prevention Workshop by Deb Casello Tuesday, November 5, 2024 6:30-8:00 pm ET This free KEYS 365 class is designed to empower participants with essential tools to recognize risk factors and warning signs of suicide, understand recommended suicide prevention verbiage, engage in open discussions, and foster hope and help-seeking behaviors.  Self-care and resilience-building techniques for attendees to practice and share with others are included. This dynamic session focuses on early intervention and is interactive; participants will actively engage with each other as they are introduced to life-saving suicide prevention skills. Please pre-register here.

6. Afternoon Tea Belmont MA Sunday Novemeber 10, 2024 12:001:30 pm ET Come join The Sun Will Rise for a relaxing afternoon of tea and community before the hustle and bustle of the upcoming holidays. Enjoy great food and conversation with your peers in this small and quaint tea room. Each guest will receive their own pot of tea in a delicious flavor of their choice. There will also be a variety of scrumptious finger sandwiches, scones, mini desserts, and cookies for all. Vegetarian and GF options are also available. Space is limited to 15 people. As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding. Contact Natalie Patricio at jeepgirl474@gmail  or (774)955-7752 with any questions and to inform of any food allergies or special accommodations. Registration is required. Sign up here!

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Monday - Christian Faith Based Hope After Loss- IN-PERSON MARLBOROUGH, MA

10/21/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Cheryl Juaire facilitating.

Greater Grace Christian Fellowship, 187 Pleasant St Marlborough, MA.

For anyone 18 and over of the Christian faith who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, BRIDGEWATER, MA 10/22/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Annie Avitabile facilitating.

Trinity Episcopal Church 91 Main St Bridgewater MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

_____________________

Tuesday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 10/22/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or 

One tap mobile 16465588656

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

_________________

Tuesday - PARTNER & SPOUSE - ZOOM 10/22/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Kar-Kate Parenteau facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a partner, spouse or significant other due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86578435343?pwd=avNFpCQpiLGCsKRKFEsexJj7E87gM5.1

Meeting ID: 865 7843 5343

Passcode: 287422 or

One tap mobile: 13052241968

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Wednesday - PEOPLE IN RECOVERY - ZOOM 10/23/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Jill Shanahan facilitating/Leslie Lagos co-facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who identifies as being in recovery from any substance or alcohol who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82183952041

Meeting ID: 821 8395 2041 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Thursday - ZOOM 10/24/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Judy Kelly facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/87481640144?pwd=8aIYWGslcb6GhO8eWk27UDYa64bPgZ.1

Meeting ID: 874 8164 0144

Passcode: 791284 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Sunday - YOUNG PERSON MEETING, IN-PERSON, MEDFORD, MA 10/27/24 10:00-11:30 am ET.

Michelle Rueda and Chloe Brosnan co-facilitating.

96 Winchester Street, Medford, MA.  

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about to substance use.

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Special Peer Grief Support Group Sunday - IN-PERSON NORTON, MA 10/27/24 11:00 am-12:00 pm ET

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating

At The INTO LIGHT project exhibit.

Wheaton College, The Beard and Weil Galleries, 31 E. Main Street, Norton, MA.

For anyone 18+ who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Week of October 13, 2024

Hello Friends,

This week we have four in-person regular groups, one regular zoom group, five specialty zoom group and one special event. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

Car Crying

After the death of someone you care about due to substance use, finding a private space to cry can feel crucial. It’s sometimes hard to let yourself openly mourn in front of others for a variety of different reasons. For many, the car becomes a refuge. I know it did for me. It’s a small, enclosed space where emotions can flow freely without fear of judgment. Whether parked in a driveway, pulled over on a quiet street, or sitting alone after arriving somewhere, the car allows for a kind of solitude that makes it easier to release grief. Whether that is a soft cry, sobbing or even screaming! For a while would just yell Nick’s name. I don’t seek out the car as a spot to cry anymore, but grief is sneaky and sometimes I just start crying when I’m driving. Maybe a song triggers the grief emotions or just my thoughts. If you start crying while driving, make sure you can pull over to a safe spot and not drive while distracted. Do you have other places that you feel it’s a safe place to cry? Share about them in one of grief groups or our private facebook page. Read more: Do You Cry When You Drive

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

THE FINDING SUPPORT IN GRIEF CONFERENCE

This has been such a wonderful event that last two years! We hope you can join us at this conference just for people bereaved due to substance use related causes!

LAST CALL FOR REGISTRATIONS!!! REGISTRATION CLOSING 10/14/24! Join us October 18-20, 2024 Framingham MA Discover hope, healing, support, and a sense of community at SADOD’s 3rd annual grief conference. REGISTER NOW! View agenda here.

Some of the sessions include:

When Vulnerability and Male Grief Collide - For Everyone

Grief Relief  – For Grieving Grandparents and Caregivers

A Direct Service Provider Perspective From Inside The Workforce - Panel

The Parallels Between Addiction & Grief

Introduction to the RIVER Peer Grief Support Model

Sibling Panel

Healing Through Wonder

The Power of Peer Support

Making Advocacy Part of Your Grief Journey Panel Discussion

Navigating the Loss of a Partner to Substance Use:Panel Discussion

Finding Meaning in Grief

Grief, Soul Exhaustion and Soul Care

Harm Reduction: A Safe Space for Grievers to Ask Questions

Remembering Lives, Sharing Stories: An Interactive Grief Workshop

Healing Hands Workshop

How Do Young People (18-35 yrs) Grieve - Panel Discussion for Everyone

Peer Grief Support for People on the Recovery Spectrum - Panel Discussion

Healing Guilt and Regret

Weaving Memories: Basket Weaving as a Form of Meditation & Remembrance

Grounding Through Grief

Grief Movement

CALL THEIR NAME HIKE

A great hike in N. Easton MA today! The "Call Their Name" hikes offer a healing experience. Walking together fosters community, helps release tension, and the shared experience allows for both personal reflection and collective healing. There is a power calling your person’s name out in the world! Do you want to have a hike near you? Please complete this form.

INTO LIGHT

Last opportunity for grief support at the INTO LIGHT exhibit in NORTON MA. A peer grief group facilitated by Robyn Houston-Bean will be held 10/27/24 at 11:00 am. Please join us.

ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. FINDING SUPPORT IN GRIEF Conference October 18-20, 2024 Framingham MA REGISTRATION CLOSING 10/14/24! Discover hope, healing, support, and a sense of community at SADOD’s 3rd annual grief conference. Register now and learn more about this special event by clicking the link below: https://cvent.me/VVeBgB. Connect with others who have experienced the death of someone they care about to substance-use-related causes.

2. October Psychoeducational Workshop 10/22/24 6:30 pm Join SADOD for a discussion on boundaries and coping strategies for the holiday season, as well as an opportunity to find comfort in sharing a space with others who feel similarly. Most importantly, we hope this workshop will convey the fact that you are not alone in feeling apprehensive about the holidays. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/sadod-holidays. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org

3. Peer Grief Support Group at the INTO LIGHT Project Wheaton College 31 E. Main St. The Beard & Weil Galleries. Norton MA 10/27/24 11:00 am ET. Last opportunity for a grief support group time together at this event space.

4. New Event! Yoga Nidra & Sound Healing Saturday, November 2, 2024 4:00 PM 5:00 PM Sally McDermott Dance Center Aurburn MA Instructors will create a safe space for healing and calming the body for people bereaved due to substance use related causes. Release. Reset. Renew. Relish in a 15 minute all levels gentle stretch Vinyasa yoga session as we then settle into our Yoga Nidra Practice. Grab a scented eye towel and a blanket as we fall into a deep guided meditation. All while bathing in the vibrations & reverberations of beautifully orchestrated Soundwaves. Space is limited to 15 people. Registration is required. As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding.

Questions? Please contact Aileen Lovejoy: 774-239-1905 aileen@peersupportcommunitypartners.com REGISTER HERE!

5. KEYS 365 Virtual Suicide Prevention Workshop by Deb Casello Tuesday, November 5, 2024 6:30-8:00 pm ET This free KEYS 365 class is designed to empower participants with essential tools to recognize risk factors and warning signs of suicide, understand recommended suicide prevention verbiage, engage in open discussions, and foster hope and help-seeking behaviors.  Self-care and resilience-building techniques for attendees to practice and share with others are included. This dynamic session focuses on early intervention and is interactive; participants will actively engage with each other as they are introduced to life-saving suicide prevention skills. Please pre-register here.

6. Afternoon Tea Belmont MA Sunday Novemeber 10, 2024 12:001:30 pm ET Come join The Sun Will Rise for a relaxing afternoon of tea and community before the hustle and bustle of the upcoming holidays. Enjoy great food and conversation with your peers in this small and quaint tea room. Each guest will receive their own pot of tea in a delicious flavor of their choice. There will also be a variety of scrumptious finger sandwiches, scones, mini desserts, and cookies for all. Vegetarian and GF options are also available. Space is limited to 15 people. As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding.

Contact Natalie Patricio at jeepgirl474@gmail  or (774)955-7752 with any questions and to inform of any food allergies or special accommodations. Registration is required. Sign up here!

**** Special post for Chris’s Corner, A Recovery Resource Center ****
The Regional Substance Navigation Program AND Chris' Corner are hosting their fourth annual Color Run/Walk for Recovery on Saturday, October 26th, and they need your help! Sign up to sponsor, volunteer, be a vendor, or participate! Sign up to participate https://forms.gle/dQMRotoxs6Wf7h6Y8

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Monday - IN-PERSON, WEYMOUTH MA 10/14/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Darlene Mersereau facilitating. 

Crossroads Church, 241 Broad Street, Weymouth, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Monday - MOM’S ONLY - ZOOM 10/14/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Chris Santos facilitating.

For mothers who have experienced the death of a child(ren) due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/89501963714?pwd=rzhdx7uxJO2lsP2PdpniApyhd6UZsd.1

Meeting ID: 895 0196 3714

Passcode: 957061 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Monday - SUICIDE RELATED DEATH- ZOOM 10/14/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Don Lipstein facilitating/Nic Scarmeas co-facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.  Whether you know for sure that suicide was the cause of death or you are uncertain, you will find support here.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89707430582

Meeting ID: 897 0743 0582 or

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, MATTHEW’S CANDLE, HANSON, MA 10/15/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Mary Peckham facilitating.

Calvary Baptist Church, 429 Monponsett Street, Hanson, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, QUINCY, MA 10/15/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Robyn Houston-Bean facilitating.

New Way Recovery, 85 Quincy Avenue, Quincy, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - IN-PERSON, CHARLESTOWN, MA 10/16/24 6:00-7:00 pm ET.

Shannon Lundin & Michael Cain facilitating.

St. John’s Church  27 Devens St 2nd Floor Charlestown MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Wednesday - ZOOM 10/16/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Karen Walsh and Rachel Solomon facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86470429283

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Wednesday - SIBLING ZOOM 10/16/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET.

Miriah Corso facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a sibling due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/81887342500?pwd=WLxNYnDMm8Juvs8OK1pbkrUJPMm1to.1

Meeting ID: 818 8734 2500

Passcode: 234576 or

One tap mobile 13092053325

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Thursday - LGBTQ+ ZOOM 10/17/24 6:00-7:30 PM ET.

Jill Shanahan (she/her) facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over and identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89951258443?pwd=MnJQVDEzWmIxaWdjWnBKN2Y4ZEh1dz09 

Meeting ID: 899 5125 8443 

Passcode: 841193 or 

One tap mobile 16469313860

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Thursday - YOUNG PERSON MEETING - ZOOM 10/17/24 6:30-8:00 pm ET.

Chloe Brosnan facilitating

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/82575673103?pwd=Xvzay1uQXyW00t8TBwwqTwElDbc7RV.1

Meeting ID: 825 7567 3103

Passcode: 847275 or

One tap mobile 13052241968

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Friday-Sunday 10/18-10/20/24 SPECIAL EVENT IN-PERSON, SHERATON FRAMINGHAM HOTEL AND CONFERENCE CENTER, FRAMINGHAM, MA sponsored by SADOD: Finding Support in Grief Conference. Last Call. Registration closes 10/14/24!

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Week of October 6, 2024

Hello Friends,

This week we have three in-person regular groups, one in-person specialty group, one regular zoom group, four specialty zoom group and one special event. Login and location information follow at the bottom of this newsletter.

Alternative Supports

This past week we offered a Music Therapy Workshop as a way to see other what other ways are out there to support people in their grief. We learned that Music Therapy can offer powerful healing for those grieving by providing an emotional outlet that words alone might not express. It helps grievers process their feelings through melodies, rhythms, and lyrics, allowing them to connect with their emotions in a supportive, non-verbal way. Music can evoke memories, bring comfort, and foster a sense of connection with the deceased, all while reducing feelings of isolation. For many, engaging with music can be a soothing and transformative part of their grief journey, offering a safe space for reflection and emotional release. As a group, we were able to make a song together in a short time! It was beautiful and each of us added our own little piece to it. Here is a link to the workshop slide show and here is our song.

Our next virtual workshop event is a suicide prevention training class. Please join us. If you have a suggestion for a virtual workshop, let us know!

~ With care

Robyn

Robyn Houston-Bean

Founder, The Sun Will Rise Foundation

INTO LIGHT

One last opportunity remains for grief support at the INTO LIGHT exhibit in NORTON MA. A peer grief group facilitated by Robyn Houston-Bean will be held 10/27/24 at 11:00 am. Please join us.

Winthrop Recovery Event

Facilitator JoAnn Rivieccio has jumped right in and hosted a resource table for us in Winthrop to let the community know that peer grief support is available! Thanks JoAnn & Teri Vendetti! We have many of different ways to volunteer for The Sun Will Rise. Sign up here and let us know how you can help us out!

The Family Restored Memorial Walk

Sunday was fabulous day for a Memorial Walk to benefit The Family Restored, a partner organization. So wonderful to see familiar faces and meet some of our new members. Thanks to Young Person Facilitator Michelle Rueda for hosting our table. Check out our events page for all our upcoming events!

ACTIVITIES & EVENTS

1. THIS SUNDAY!!!!! Call Their Names Hike Sunday 10/13/24 2:30 pm 259 Massapoag Ave No. Easton MA We invite people bereaved due to substance use related causes to join together in an autumn walk at Borderland State Park. We will make stops along the way to “Call Their Name” at a few locations as a way to carry our person with us on this outing. Everyone is welcome…friends, family, kids, as well as dogs on leashes. More info here.

2. FINDING SUPPORT IN GRIEF Conference October 18-20, 2024 Framingham MA REGISTRATION CLOSING 10/14/24! Discover hope, healing, support, and a sense of community at SADOD’s 3rd annual grief conference. Register now and learn more about this special event by clicking the link below: https://cvent.me/VVeBgB. Connect with others who have experienced the death of someone they care about to substance-use-related causes.

3. October Psychoeducational Workshop 10/22/24 6:30 pm Join SADOD for a discussion on boundaries and coping strategies for the holiday season, as well as an opportunity to find comfort in sharing a space with others who feel similarly. Most importantly, we hope this workshop will convey the fact that you are not alone in feeling apprehensive about the holidays. This workshop will take place virtually on Zoom. Learn more and register at bit.ly/sadod-holidays. Please note this workshop has a $10 fee for individuals outside of Massachusetts. Massachusetts residents may attend this workshop for free due to funding from MA-BSAS by using promo code MASS at the time of registration. If cost is an issue, please contact Laura@sadod.org

4. Peer Grief Support Group at the INTO LIGHT Project Wheaton College 31 E. Main St. The Beard & Weil Galleries. Norton MA 10/27/24 11:00 am ET. Join in this special limited time/location group in a very special space.

5. KEYS 365 Virtual Suicide Prevention Workshop by Deb Casello Tuesday, November 5, 2024 6:30-8:00 pm ET This free KEYS 365 class is designed to empower participants with essential tools to recognize risk factors and warning signs of suicide, understand recommended suicide prevention verbiage, engage in open discussions, and foster hope and help-seeking behaviors.  Self-care and resilience-building techniques for attendees to practice and share with others are included. This dynamic session focuses on early intervention and is interactive; participants will actively engage with each other as they are introduced to life-saving suicide prevention skills. Please pre-register here.

6. New event! Afternoon Tea Belmont MA Sunday Novemeber 10, 2024 12:001:30 pm ET Come join The Sun Will Rise for a relaxing afternoon of tea and community before the hustle and bustle of the upcoming holidays. Enjoy great food and conversation with your peers in this small and quaint tea room. Each guest will receive their own pot of tea in a delicious flavor of their choice. There will also be a variety of scrumptious finger sandwiches, scones, mini desserts, and cookies for all. Vegetarian and GF options are also available.

Space is limited to 15 people.

As with our previous events, we are requiring a deposit to hold your spot. You will receive the deposit back at the event. If you sign up and do not attend the event without giving us 10 days notice, the deposit is not refundable. We do this to be able to continue to offer events at no cost to you. Thanks for your understanding.

Contact Natalie Patricio at jeepgirl474@gmail  or (774)955-7752 with any questions and to inform of any food allergies or special accommodations. Registration is required. Sign up here

THIS WEEK’S MEETING INFORMATION

Monday - ZOOM - 10/7/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET.

Deb Dowd-Foley facilitating.

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/84665684398?pwd=gkU8oNagdA87lx9EN5AtUNJOaiElw2.1

Meeting ID: 846 6568 4398

Passcode: 887312 or

One tap mobile 13092053325

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Monday - Christian Faith Based Hope After Loss- IN-PERSON MARLBOROUGH, MA 10/7/24 6:00-7:30 pm ET. 

Cheryl Juaire facilitating. 

Greater Grace Christian Fellowship, 187 Pleasant St Marlborough MA.

For anyone 18 and over of the Christian faith who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use. 

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Tuesday - IN-PERSON, NATHAN’S CIRCLE, WEST BARNSTABLE, MA 10/8/24 5:30-7:00 pm ET. 

Kerry and Richard Bickford facilitating. 

Compass Rose Center 1106 Main St West Barnstable MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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NEW OFFERING! Tuesday - IN-PERSON, WINTHROP, MA 10/8/24 4:30-6:00 pm ET. 

JoAnn Rivieccio facilitating. 

196 Winthrop Street, Winthrop, MA 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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Tuesday - PARTNER & SPOUSE - ZOOM 10/8/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Kar-Kate Parenteau facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of a partner, spouse or significant other due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/86578435343?pwd=avNFpCQpiLGCsKRKFEsexJj7E87gM5.1

Meeting ID: 865 7843 5343

Passcode: 287422 or

One tap mobile: 13052241968

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Tuesday - MEN’S ONLY - ZOOM 10/8/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Dave Swindell and Gary Carter facilitating. 

For men 18 and over who have experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://zoom.us/j/96961980647?pwd=cFVTMHR3VE9COGc3UGdIZHo4TWVaZz09#success

Meeting ID: 969 6198 0647

Password: 300626 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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Wednesday - GRIEVING MULTIPLE LOVED ONES - ZOOM 10/9/24 7:00-8:30 pm ET. 

Annie Avitabile facilitating. 

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of multiple loved ones due to substance use.

Join Zoom Meeting

https://us06web.zoom.us/j/88620038150?pwd=tPIsgXzIez3IJB2Ly7SoeSyNN8sYkm.1

Meeting ID: 886 2003 8150

Passcode: 358575 or

One tap mobile 16465588656

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POSTPONED UNTIL NEXT WEEK!!!!

Thursday - YOUNG PERSON MEETING - ZOOM

For anyone 18-35 who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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CANCELLED THIS MONTH!!!!!

Thursday - IN-PERSON, MATTHEW’S CANDLE, KINGSTON, MA

For anyone 18 and over who has experienced the death of someone they care about due to substance use.

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EVENT! Sunday - 10/13/24 - 2:30-4:30 pm ET ‘Call Their Names’ Hike at Borderland State Park. 

The Sun Will Rise Foundation invites people bereaved due to substance use related causes to join together in an autumn walk at Borderland State Park. 259 Massapoag Ave., North Easton, MA

Do you know someone bereaved due to substance use related causes that would appreciate our weekly email?

Have them sign up here for support!

Join our private Facebook page.

To view the newsletter on our website, please enter the password: grief

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